Kaine attends 3 hours of meetings at sheriff's office

[Melanie]

Maybe I'm strange, but I don't think the science fair is that interesting. I would have been satisfied with seeing the project at home.

Maybe if I had friend's ore relatives children I would go to see their project, but I just don't see a display with a diorama as that exciting.

I grew up in the era when children went to school, did THEIR own work, played sports by themselves with no parental involvement. School was the child's job and parents had their own lives. It was just expected that we went to school and played outside . We came in when the streetlights came on.

I agree -- it's no big that bio-dad didn't attend. My son had to make a school project (which we did together) and that was my reward. I didn't follow up with going to school to see it (I'd already spent hours helping him with it). He knew how proud I was of him. And it looks like he had help with his project too. The title was obviously done on a laser printer and cut in straight lines, centered, etc.

Just my opinion though.

Mel

 

[Caligram]

I think the meeting was more of going over everything that LE wanted to share with Kaine, and LE expecting honest non-defensive responses from Kaine. It doesn't seem odd at all, looking at it from that perspective.
I don't question why Kaine didn't attend the science fair. He was able to see the finished project before it was brought to the school prior to the fair. I have gotten the impression that Kaine is more of a private person who is uncomfortable expressing feelings publicly. He appears to be rigidly holding himself together, tense, and not quite sure what the next blow will be or where it will come from. One other thing about Kaine and the fair - I believe that Terri did the majority of the work on that project - it was simply too much like a page out of National Geographic, not the efforts of a seven-year-old. I believe that Terri was a control freak, she exerted control over Kyron's project, and possibly even Kyron might have dared to suggest that he wanted to do the project by himself. Kaine might have been reluctant to attend and to have to pretend to others that Kyron did that remarkable project all by himself. Kyron's snapshot in front of "his" project appears as a forced teeth-baring pose in response to Terri's demand to smile.

 

[Sailor Bug]

Why? Kaine had to work. As much as he may want to go to everything Kyron had on at school I doubt he would get the time off to go to everything and in all honesty he had seen the project anyhow. Terri was there which SHOULD have been just fine.

JMO

O/T So sorry all

My original comment was made as a response to another comment Re: Kaine's "perfect" recollection of the day lil Kyron went missing.
My comment was just a thought and new observation by me Re:Kaine and yes it is a concern to me. Kyron is only in grade 2. Most parents go to everything especially in the early years and lil Kyron is his child.
Pehaps Terri KNEW Kaine would not be going to it

Enough said on that topic back to:Kaine attends 3 hours of meetings at sherriff's office

I sure am praying precious Kyron comes home soon raying:

 

[Emeralgem]

Maybe I'm strange, but I don't think the science fair is that interesting. I would have been satisfied with seeing the project at home.

Maybe if I had friend's or relative's children I would go to see their project, but I just don't see a display with a diorama as that exciting.

I grew up in the era when children went to school, did THEIR own work, and played sports by themselves with no parental involvement. School was the child's job and parents had their own lives. It was just expected that we went to school and played outside . We came in when the streetlights came on.

O/T..No offense intended, but I'll venture to say you just may be as old as I am...LOL

Also, Science projects in my childen's school were never viewed by parents the day they were brought in..They were brought in, set up in the gymnasium before school. The students with their teachers were allowed to view them after awards had been placed on the projects.. Parents were ONLY allowed to view the projects with their children at an open house held sometime during the same week. They also stayed up until the weekend so parents, famliy and those interested could view them after attending Mass ...At that time projects were taken home..

 

[debs]

There is nothing to indicate what this meeting was about but I'm always impressed with the number of purposes people can assign to something!

 

[Aedrys]

Call me crazy, but I really have an extremely difficult time believing that LE advised Kaine to take his daughter and leave if they had any inkling that he had anything to do with Kyrons disappearance...but that's just me and mho..

To be honest I never gave much thought at all as to why Kaine did not attend the science fair, since he is the employed parent. Not unusual these days, when some schools have many activities going on..Now, had Kyron been receiving some kind of award for his project or something along those lines, I think I would have expected him to attend...but certainly would not correlate him not being there with Kyron's disappearance! Besides, since Kaine was working from his office that morning from what I understand, his whereabouts were probably easily verifiable...Terri..not so much, unless I have missed something major!

As far as my own feelings of believing Terri is most likely guilty, her FB had very little to do with my belief..that was just one more thing in a string of 'coincidences' that leave me with a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach. What do I know though...maybe TH has just had a run of bad luck..nothing more. I don't believe that to be the case, but again...what do I know?

I cannot thank you enough for this post. Thanks button a thousand times!!!! ITA!!!

 

[xin]

Maybe I'm strange, but I don't think the science fair is that interesting. I would have been satisfied with seeing the project at home.

Maybe if I had friend's or relative's children I would go to see their project, but I just don't see a display with a diorama as that exciting.

I grew up in the era when children went to school, did THEIR own work, and played sports by themselves with no parental involvement. School was the child's job and parents had their own lives. It was just expected that we went to school and played outside . We came in when the streetlights came on.

Me too, my kid did his own work, with background help, and filled out his own college applications, wrote his own essays and turned them in with his mistakes (this is rare in our area). I do think it's important for parents to show up and be known around the school and check out the scene with the teachers, the other kids, all that. And, that's how my parents were.

But, Kaine is an engineer (some people in SiVal even think of tech engineers as *scientists*), he is the parent in the home, has a pretty flexible work schedule and had the afternoon off. The picture of turmoil with the other brother's *transition* in my mind adds to good reasons to show up. Ice cream is not a substitute, just a little trim. He seems pretty detached to me.

imo

 

[Wrinkles]

I bet he couldn't remember what happened the night before, I bet nothing happened that impacted his life. But you can bet he can remember everything that happened concerning his son that morning, the last time he ever saw him, that will be etched in his brain forever

Oh yes Jo,

You can bet on that. This father has as much as suffered the sudden death of his son UNLESS AND UNTIL that child is returned to him. The video, in his mind, of his last moments with his son has replayed in his head a million times. Those things he remembers as very clear, he surely wants to keep clear, and I am betting he is working hard to remember every other little wonderful action of his son he saw.

 

[Dee10]

Well that's the first time in a while we've heard "no comment". Wonder if LE is telling him to keep quiet and stop doing all those interviews?

Interesting --

Mel

IDK it sounds to me, things are heating up. I can think of lot's of reasons for a three hour meeting, clarifying friends (relationships) on cell phone/email/fB...any number of reasons The thing that bothers me though is it was done at the police station and not in his own home; given he just got back to work his little daughter, wouldn't LE try to be discrete (given the media presence)...IDK. :waitasec:

ETA the Head Banger :banghead:

 

[Day Dreamer]

Maybe I'm strange, but I don't think the science fair is that interesting. I would have been satisfied with seeing the project at home.

Maybe if I had friend's or relative's children I would go to see their project, but I just don't see a display with a diorama as that exciting.

I grew up in the era when children went to school, did THEIR own work, and played sports by themselves with no parental involvement. School was the child's job and parents had their own lives. It was just expected that we went to school and played outside . We came in when the streetlights came on.

I have to agree w/ you. Even as a kid I never did a science project unless it was required. It just wasn't my thing. With that said, my bff was hugely into doing science projects. That was a big thing at her house; and, her parents helped. I can't recall for sure if her parents came to school to see them though ... probably to help set up. I think we probably did tour them at school in a group; but, it wasn't a big deal to me since I wasn't interested. FWIW, I have found them slightly more interesting w/ age.

I also agree w/ another poster about parents not coming to school events. My dad never came. The only things he came for was 8th grade graduation and high school graduation. He didn't come to my college graduation though ... had to work. My mom was there for most things. My dad was always working; so, it wasn't really that big of a deal that he didn't come.

As to the meeting, I don't find 3 hours odd considering the massive amount of info to sort and investigate. There are many things they could have done in that time. They could have prepared for the RO hearing ... LE may have to appear in court given the circumstances (not sure). They could have been discussing safety measures or possible developments in the MFH plot or the MC situation. They could have been briefing him on the latest updates; or, he could have just been there working w/ them brainstorming or going over the mountain of records LE has obtained. It could have been a combination of all of the above as well as briefing Kaine on any new developments. There are just so many possibilities.

I don't really read anything "bad" into it since Kaine has been working closely w/ LE from the beginning. If my child were missing, I imagine I would spend every moment possible w/ LE trying to find my child.

 

[PortlandMama]

If Kaine has recently gone back to work, then the 3 hours may reflect that--i.e., he may have been visiting them more regularly for shorter stretches prior to going back to work, but now he has to do it in one piece.

I don't know how to gauge whether 3 hours is long or not, not being privy to the historical pattern. It seems possible to me that he has met with them for good chunks all along and that this time the KGW truck just happened to be in a position to make note of what time he entered and what time he left.

:twocents:

 

[Emma Peel]

good grief.

The man's child is missing.

I certainly hope Kaine is talking with LE regularly. And I bet he's glad that they use him for everything they think he'd be helpful with.

I wouldn't be suprised if Kaine said to LE: "yes, of course we can meet - but if possible, can we meet at your place after work hours and dinner for the baby because we're trying hard to keep things scheduled and keep the house peaceful for her this week so she can re-adjust."

And LE said "Sure, man"- whatever is good for you & the baby." And they said "hope the baby's enjoying being home".

Hey, it's not crazy. LE is scheduled for overtime, as we know.

 

[passionflower]

3 hours, but straight time?
When my neighbor's daughter was murderd, she practically lived at the police station.
But there was coffee time, talking time, asking about everything and anything to get a clue.
The LE even couseled her as to what to do and say to outsiders.
IMO, 3 hours is not a long time in an investigation. JMOO

 

[butterfly1978]

Late Wednesday morning, Sheriff Daniel Staton released a statement to the media promising he was working to complete a thorough investigation, even if he could not elaborate on all the details.


I remember the statement that TY said about connecting the dots. The Sheriff could have said that he wanted to make sure they were thoroughly investigating every detail, but instead he used the word COMPLETE the investigation. So I wonder what that means. You dont complete an investigation unless it is solved. Have they solved this case? If so where is Kyron? Are they ready to make an arrest? If so where is Kyron? The investigation is not complete until Kyron is located.

 

[Calliope]

Late Wednesday morning, Sheriff Daniel Staton released a statement to the media promising he was working to complete a thorough investigation, even if he could not elaborate on all the details.


I remember the statement that TY said about connecting the dots. The Sheriff could have said that he wanted to make sure they were thoroughly investigating every detail, but instead he used the word COMPLETE the investigation. So I wonder what that means. You dont complete an investigation unless it is solved. Have they solved this case? If so where is Kyron? Are they ready to make an arrest? If so where is Kyron? The investigation is not complete until Kyron is located.

Well, it can be solved without finding Kyron.

I think they may not find him

 

[cluciano63]

Once again it may be a case of zeroing in exact wording and the meaning of such, too minutely, due to lack of information on a regular basis. I don't see how they can come to any conclusion this early on without finding Kyron; it may seem like a very long time, but it is very early for any kind of murder charges without a body. He may have just meant they need to continue and/or make sure they do a very thorough investigation (and not just look at Terri.)

 

[grandmaj]

When you type a post and know you are typing a rumor that is a huge :nono: That is admitting you know you are violating TOS.

Kaine having an affair is a rumor, a myth, that Kaine has denied on the record.

Don't let me see anymore posts about a "rumor". Rumors do not belong on WS.

 

[AlexisFresca]

:woohoo: Sounds like the dots are connected! PTL! :woohoo:

 

[Reality Orlando]

I've never really heard of any kind of meeting with LE before a RO hearing. Why would there be a meeting with law enforcement over this domestic/family court matter? Three hours is longer than the hearing will take. The meeting had to do with K's disappearance, IMO. Why would LE be involved in a restraining order, I've been to RO hearings and had friends involved in ROs and they were court matters.
To me, odd.

Wonder if the meeting dealt with safety concerns for K. and the baby in case the judge does not enforce the RO. If LE truly believes the MFH was real, then K certainly would have cause for concern.

 

[Mamietwo]

I wonder what it was about, and I wonder why he didn't want to make any comment at all.

Three hours is a long time. He was probably exhausted and frazzled and wanting to get home to baby K.

The part that bothers me is what Sheriff Staton said about he's "working to complete a thorough investigation". A strange word to use when you have no more participation from the last person to see Kyron alive, and you don't have Kyron! Strange, in my opinion.