Michelle Young, pregnant mom, murdered Part 15.

[strach304]

The affair is another indication of a man not happy in his marriage as well. Seperate vacations another clue. A wife seeking therapy. LE seems to believe there were financial problems. Anyone wanting to argue or dispute rumors on Jason's behalf is fine with me but denying the truth imo is simply a worthless effort. A better argument would be that ole' SP one; doesn't make him a murderer.

 

[nanandjim]

He may have learned that after the California vacation - let me have it :slap:

I was being facetious, RC. I believe that he used this furniture as part of his alibi. I don't buy it for one minute.

 

[jake]

why did jason feel in a rush to get furniture from his mom that was meant
for the baby boy who still had 4 months before his was to be born?

why would jason rush to get the baby furniture on a weekend that he had friends coming to stay with him for the big homecoming football game?

wouldn't they have cassidy's crib at Birchleaf in the garage? what was the furniture? michelle had lots of friends with babies. i think that women
traditionally pass along baby clothes and furniture within their circle of friends.

why couldn't mrs young UPS the furniture if it were small enough? or send it by greyhound?

why make such a long trip on such a busy weekend?

wouldn't jason have wanted that furniture for the first baby boy who died as a result of the car accident? why wasn't it all ready down in Raleigh?
imo

Howdy,

I reckon Jason is the one you need for answers to your questions.

However, I understand that from his meeting place in western Virginia, Brevard was not such a long trip.

The furniture? I think it was not baby furniture, but other stuff that would allow Jason and Michelle to prepare and decorate the new baby's room.

I reckon this is the Best Sharing I have. I don't know anything about the friends coming to visit, except for what I've read on the board. Wish I could help more.

--Jake

 

[jake]

he might not admit it now, but there are people who heard him say that he was unhappy in his marriage before the murder.

imo

Howdy,

This is the first I have heard of this. Do you feel free to give the name of someone who heard him say he was unhappy? Is there any way to give a link to another post?

Thanks.

--Jake

 

[raisincharlie]

I was being facetious, RC. I believe that he used this furniture as part of his alibi. I don't buy it for one minute.

I know- I have the smarties today. I suspect the furniture is just as much rumor as everything else. If true its a pretty weak excuse as The Saint has pointed out so cleverly. It becomes even weaker when the other events are tied in, such as company from out of town coming, arranging to pick it up before talking to Michelle to verify she would be comfortable babysitting his friends. little things like that you know.

Funny, if I call someone and they put me on hold to answer another call I hang up. I reckon if I went to visit someone in another city and they felt it was more important to go pick up furniture 5 hours away when I arrived, I don't think we would have much to talk about again. Incredibly stupid and definitely beyond rude IMO.

ETA - especially if their spouse was found murdered in the house.

 

[snowshuze]

I know- I have the smarties today. I suspect the furniture is just as much rumor as everything else. If true its a pretty weak excuse as The Saint has pointed out so cleverly. It becomes even weaker when the other events are tied in, such as company from out of town coming, arranging to pick it up before talking to Michelle to verify she would be comfortable babysitting his friends. little things like that you know.

Funny, if I call someone and they put me on hold to answer another call I hang up. I reckon if I went to visit someone in another city and they felt it was more important to go pick up furniture 5 hours away when I arrived, I don't think we would have much to talk about again. Incredibly stupid and definitely beyond rude IMO.

ETA - especially if their spouse was found murdered in the house.

Right on the mark on all points, raisin.
Seems obvious we are bait on a fishing expedition.

 

[Scout]

Howdy,

I reckon Jason is the one you need for answers to your questions.

However, I understand that from his meeting place in western Virginia, Brevard was not such a long trip.

The furniture? I think it was not baby furniture, but other stuff that would allow Jason and Michelle to prepare and decorate the new baby's room.

I reckon this is the Best Sharing I have. I don't know anything about the friends coming to visit, except for what I've read on the board. Wish I could help more.

--Jake

The side trip to Brevard added about three and a half hours to his trip.

 

[raisincharlie]

Right on the mark on all points, raisin.
Seems obvious we are bait on a fishing expedition.

I'm not sure if we are the bait or the fish. I feel more like the fish - "here, swallow this insane tidbit"....:crazy:

 

[snowshuze]

I'm not sure if we are the bait or the fish. I feel more like the fish - "here, swallow this insane tidbit"....:crazy:

But the bait is manipulated by the one doing the fishing. Hook em , reel em in?

 

[snowshuze]

If I could make a suggestion to Mr Jake.... go through the archives of this crime message board, or any other, an read up on cases similar to Michelle Young. That would be your best source of information on LE procedure. From investigation through trial. Some laws vary state to state, but it would offer you general guidelines.

 

[strach304]

Howdy,

I reckon Jason is the one you need for answers to your questions.

However, I understand that from his meeting place in western Virginia, Brevard was not such a long trip.

The furniture? I think it was not baby furniture, but other stuff that would allow Jason and Michelle to prepare and decorate the new baby's room.

I reckon this is the Best Sharing I have. I don't know anything about the friends coming to visit, except for what I've read on the board. Wish I could help more.

--Jake

Ah, so you do know where his meeting place was. Care to share? :dance:

 

[less0305]

The affair is another indication of a man not happy in his marriage as well. Seperate vacations another clue. A wife seeking therapy. LE seems to believe there were financial problems. Anyone wanting to argue or dispute rumors on Jason's behalf is fine with me but denying the truth imo is simply a worthless effort. A better argument would be that ole' SP one; doesn't make him a murderer.

Anyone arguing that Jason was in a happily committed marriage is simply off their oats, if you ask me. That dog just won't hunt.....nobody "happy" in their marriage has an affair - or spends endless time e-mailing and chatting it up with his wife's good friend on the sly for that matter, takes a job to stay out on the road traveling, takes a family vacation without his wife and child, and one or both parties seeking therapy. I mean c'mon, it's as clear as the nose on your face - he was not happy in his marriage. You're so right Strach!

 

[less0305]

he might not admit it now, but there are people who heard him say that he was unhappy in his marriage before the murder.

imo

And I wouldn't be a bit surprised if one of them was MM. All those emails and chats were for a reason.....to complain about their spouses to each other. IMO.

 

[strach304]

:laugh:

Anyone arguing that Jason was in a happily committed marriage is simply off their oats, if you ask me. That dog just won't hunt.....nobody "happy" in their marriage has an affair - or spends endless time e-mailing and chatting it up with his wife's good friend on the sly for that matter, takes a job to stay out on the road traveling, takes a family vacation without his wife and child, and one or both parties seeking therapy. I mean c'mon, it's as clear as the nose on your face - he was not happy in his marriage. You're so right Strach!

Yeah , we really don't need links to who said Jason was not happy imo.

 

[raisincharlie]

Anyone arguing that Jason was in a happily committed marriage is simply off their oats, if you ask me. That dog just won't hunt.....nobody "happy" in their marriage has an affair - or spends endless time e-mailing and chatting it up with his wife's good friend on the sly for that matter, takes a job to stay out on the road traveling, takes a family vacation without his wife and child, and one or both parties seeking therapy. I mean c'mon, it's as clear as the nose on your face - he was not happy in his marriage. You're so right Strach!

I totally agree with you less !

I will take this one step further - I believe the choice of having an affair with a person out of state and a close friend and sorority sister to his wife was as targeted as the blows landed on Michelle during her murder. This affair was done for reasons other than just a fling. Call me crazy but I believe at some point, Michelle was very much aware of it. JMO

 

[less0305]

I totally agree with you less !

I will take this one step further - I believe the choice of having an affair with a person out of state and a close friend and sorority sister to his wife was as targeted as the blows landed on Michelle during her murder. This affair was done for reasons other than just a fling. Call me crazy but I believe at some point, Michelle was very much aware of it. JMO

That's a form of emotional abuse taken to the nth degree. And I, like you, think this was calculated on his part. What would hurt Michelle the most, the deepest. I honestly think (IMO only - and all that jazzzzz) that at some point MM confided to Michelle some little cracks in her happy marriage, Michelle relayed those to Jason as husband/wife talk, and Jason made the most of that knowledge - started a "friendly" banter with MM and then drove it home as a way to hurt Michelle as badly as he could. Somehow it all backfired on him and then came the rage and killing. But that's just my take on it - i have absolutely no first-hand knowledge of anything.

 

[scandi]

You go Guys! LOL I totally believe that too Charlie and Less. As well, I have the distinct feeling she knew about MM. Why? That would be traumatic to her. A 'last straw' so to speak, worthy of calling an end to their marriage after everything else. In fact, if I were in MY's shoes I would have immediately called my SS and talk to her about it. And in some way I believe that her being livid about the news ended up with her being discovered in a state of certain lividity!

One other little note is we just learned from Dk at CTV that in Cassidy's closet clothes were clothes hanging and ready for her new little brother. I think Michelle had things well under tow for his coming, and think the furniture is a red herring. Of all weekends to move furniture, it wouldn't be that one with friends coming to stay and party up with the big game on Sat.

Off to work, but have a great day and see you tonight with bells on.

Scandi


PS: Great to have the Saint on board. YaYa

 

[strach304]

The affair with a close friend, trip to CA. without her and Cassidy, financial and other things that he would do all look like deliberate schemes to push Michelle into a divorce. Possibly he told her to get an abortion? These are all good possibilities for why she went to a therapist and things that she may have told her. Why the murder though?

 

[nanandjim]

Anyone arguing that Jason was in a happily committed marriage is simply off their oats, if you ask me. That dog just won't hunt.....nobody "happy" in their marriage has an affair - or spends endless time e-mailing and chatting it up with his wife's good friend on the sly for that matter, takes a job to stay out on the road traveling, takes a family vacation without his wife and child, and one or both parties seeking therapy. I mean c'mon, it's as clear as the nose on your face - he was not happy in his marriage. You're so right Strach!

I personally think that Jason didn't care about his wife. I don't think that he ever really loved her. He felt pressured into marrying her and continued to do as he pleased. I think that she put up with this behavior for a while, probably hoping that he would eventually settle down. Things seemed to get worse, not better in their marriage.

I can imagine that Michelle was well aware of his distance in many ways. He probably was never around. Yet, when he was, he was on the computer or on his cell phone. What a perfect excuse to say that he was helping "her" friend, MM, through a rough time in her marriage. After all, MM needed a male perspective on things, I am sure that he reasoned.

MY probably got more and more suspicious and Jason, all the while, was telling her that she was imagining things and that she was paranoid, etc. I think that is why she went to a therapist.

A therapist would give her an unbiased opinion of what she thought of the situation. Perhaps, MY even told Jason that her therapist said that her feelings were valid and that he should not be acting the way that he was.

Perhaps, the therapist even told her to put her foot down and make some demands or she should consider ending the marriage (which was really one-sided).

This could have angered Jason because he knew that his number was quickly going to be up. He didn't want a divorce because he would lose quite a bit, not to mention child support for two children. No, the only way that Jason could see out of this was to murder his wife and unborn son.

Jason didn't love Michelle and probably blamed her for the entire situation anyway. She, after all, got herself pregnant and forced him into a situation that he didn't want to be in. Then, she had the nerve to get pregnant again. Man, couldn't she take the hint with the accident. No, she has to get pregnant yet a third time...

He's sweating it. However, with each passing day, I think that his nervousness eases a little. He probably is beginning to think that he committed the perfect crime.

 

[Barney Fife]

Howdy,

I reckon Jason is the one you need for answers to your questions.

However, I understand that from his meeting place in western Virginia, Brevard was not such a long trip.

The furniture? I think it was not baby furniture, but other stuff that would allow Jason and Michelle to prepare and decorate the new baby's room.

I reckon this is the Best Sharing I have. I don't know anything about the friends coming to visit, except for what I've read on the board. Wish I could help more.

--Jake

Jake,
If you want us to believe ANY of your tales, you need to stop changing the story. Posting as gojo, you very clearly stated Mrs Young told you Jason was getting some FURNITURE that would fit in his SUV. Now you say "other stuff" to prepare and decorate the baby's room. Do you honestly think he would drive 3 1/2 hours out of the way on Friday afternoon to pick up some "stuff" to decorate a nursery that would not be used until 4 months down the road ? Especially when he had house guests driving in that night.

Sorry Jake, I call BS on both your stories.