Couldn't stop watching last night, and some things I saw angered me while some touched my heart.
One very angry man was actually yelling at protestors and was quite aggressive, as the protesters were joined arm in arm, black and white. One of the protestors calmed the man, actually by yelling at him and put his arm around him and made him join in walking arm and arm with the group. That was touching.
Another guy tried to get in the face of a reporter(this was on fox) and I thought surely it was going to end badly, however, the reporter turned it into an interview. Which was positive. But the ignorance shown while the young man answered was so frustrating. He honestly couldn't answer definitively what he wanted to happen as a result of the protest. Just said he would be there all night, every night. And I think that is the case with a lot of the angry individuals. They are mad, not just about MB, perhaps least mad about MB. But the chip they have on their shoulder is unrecognized, and they have actually no game plan for change. THAT is frustrating. If you protest you should have clear, defined examples of why you are there and what you want.
And I grew up from about age 15-23ish, very much involved with mainstream rappers(my bf worked in the industry with some of the biggest rappers). The message that any kids listening to that music is to hate cops, blow money, never snitch, never backdown. And even though it's just music, anything repeated to you enough becomes part of your belief system, especially during an age where kids are so easily molded. I think so many kids, not just young black men, truly do not value themselves as an individual and believe they owe nothing to society. It is a take take take mentality, everyone owes them something. Yet they contribute nothing.
No self esteem, no emotional intelligence and trapped in a culture which tells them they are victims will always lead to anger and resentment. These kids need to know they are more than their skin color, more than their socioeconomic group and that they are valued and have so much to give. But first, and this is a universal truth for ALL people, you must demand more of yourself before you demand more of others.
All MOO/IMO.