Yeah. For the majority of society - and everyone who's here on this forum - actually carrying out violence, arson, murder, and the like doesn't even occur to us as legitimate + realistic action on another human being, no matter who they are or as a reaction to his/her own negative behavior, real or perceived.
I feel like every other day one of us alludes to the difficulty of wrapping our heads around that kind of cruelty, but I'm grateful that something like this is so shocking because that means it's so alien to many of us a way of attempting to solve anything in life. Ugh. :-(
You are so right. This is so true. Not just to find murder or even cruelty revolting, but none of us wants to give up the freedom we have for our one unique lifetime. Our one guaranteed lifetime that is tangible and full of laughter and tears and goals and achievements, of failures and lessons learned, of loves and growth. Jessica represents one such a life to any and all who look at her case and feel the shock, the total disgust at the unknown force that brought this horrible thing into existence. That forces us to look at something we don't want to see, that we don't want to believe exists on the same plane as we do.
Yes we each value our lives and our freedom. Consider that the "force" that was behind the lighting of this match cares very little for their own lifetime on this earth or for any form of retribution the law could/might eventually bring their way. What mind is so broken and so irretrievably lost to humanity to not only conceive this event but to carry it out?
It's in the terrible facts, the messy ash-coated specifics, the totality of the human condition, that leaves us sickened to our stomachs. Almost feverish from what society has not only accepted but the fruit it has now borne and the downright evil manifest amongst us. We can choose to take the popular tack and close our eyes and ears and set our sails away from these troubled waters. Who could blame any for that choice? Or we can make the continued conscious decision to look at this case as nauseating and bereft of humanity as it is even if it is only a few of us who cry out in anger and disgust compared to the majority "out there" who will tune this out, who will continue to look away from the disaster of Jessica and those other poor souls like her.
I don't know anyone who is spotless without flaws. I don't expect that I ever will. Jessica is unknown to me but I can state with certainty that no one has ever done any act that deserves immolation without further thought.
There is a stubborn web of deceit and confusion that seems to grow daily for those of us who are trying to find a way thru to see the real young lady at the midst of this tragedy. We cannot and will not solve the crime for her. We can debate whether LE knows what they are doing, if and how gangs or drugs may have been involved, if females actually put this horrid thing into action, if Jessica actually had any real friends in her immediate circle...but we cannot know what isn't told to us.
We have nothing really because we value life, we value kindness, we despise violence and murder, we love our freedoms; how can our minds understand those behind this? Only by going very deep into a culture that exists not just in Courtland but in fact can be found all over the world. And after a while it just makes you sick inside and you have to take some time to contemplate this life, what it really means to be a human, and where do we draw the line?
Sorry but I am so saddened by all of these cases and this one in particular that I find it hard to look out at the gray winter day and believe that spring will come with new life and such. How will that be any different from December 2014 to Jessica's family? For now, that's when time stopped for them. :moo: