I found the interview that I was looking for. I confused the WRAL video with the ABC special. Blonde moment for sure.
Raven Abaroa talks to Fox 50's NC Wanted in October 2007 about his life with his late wife, Janet Christiansen Abaroa, and her death.
http://www.wral.com/news/local/asset_gallery/5138551/
This is a video interview in four parts and will give you an idea of what Raven is like. This was May 13, 2009.
I don't know why it says May 13, 2009 on the links and the video was in 2007. Gave me another "duh" moment.... I've had a lot of those today. Crikey!!
BTW: Raven loves the sound of his own voice.