AzPistonsGirl
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Ah how sweet of you!Thank you. But these are not from WS are they?
It is very sad. I don't doubt he's a lovely person. But fatal calamitous errors in judgement frequently have consequences, and this one left one person without their life.
It's just weird for me, I guess....I consider how many posts I've seen here where a mom's boyfriend hurts her child, and people get all up in arms about how she needs all her children removed and whatnot. Someone's even been calling for forced sterilization of long-term drug addicts over on another thread...it's just interesting how some people's errors in judgement can be overlooked easier than others. If, say, the coach was under the influence of marijuana when they entered that cave, would he still be getting the same amount of slack? Rhetorical, just kinda where I'm coming from, I guess.
I'll not belabor my pointBack to watching for more news!
Hands all extra tomatoes to @Spellbound.
ahhh I need a Vicki Sue Robinson break !!
ALL her stuff not just Turn!!
her voice is just joyous!! fun
The initial 4 boys rescued were the weakest of the boys and they did not have the physical strength to "pull" themselves forward using the dive line so yes, they were "hugged" by the divers -- also why their rescue took several hours longer than the 2nd group rescued.
Saw this and thought you guys might like it
I’m a terrible human being but I could not have stayed in the cave that long with the kids. I would be thinking it’s an Everyman for himself situation around day 5 or 6.
But I’m a terrible human being.
I would have tried to get out and killed my self.
So to me the coach is a hero.
I've been wondering about how they are extracting them aside from sending each boy with 2 rescue divers. It's possible that they are medicating them before the dive to prevent the boys from freaking out, jerking, and pulling the oxygen line, mask, etc.
Coach and 4 remaining boys spent their 17th night in the cave...
The next operation is scheduled to be launched by 4pm local time on Tuesday but the rescue chief said he could not guarantee the last five would be freed by the end of the day.
Eight boys now freed in daring rescues from Thai cave
Yes, the cave floods during monsoon season. That's why there is a warning to not enter it starting in July. Granted, they entered it in June but prognosis was for heavy rain, according to NYT article.That sounds like child abuse and the intent was to hurt the child. The coach didn't intend to put these kids at risk like this or wanted them to be hurt. To me, there is a huge difference.
Does anyone know if flooding like this has happened before? I know there are warning signs posted, but curious is this has happened in the past. Tia!
I do understand where you're coming from tho, I find similar things interesting- what upsets one and not another, etc..![]()
That sounds like child abuse and the intent was to hurt the child. The coach didn't intend to put these kids at risk like this or wanted them to be hurt. To me, there is a huge difference.
Does anyone know if flooding like this has happened before? I know there are warning signs posted, but curious is this has happened in the past. Tia!
I do understand where you're coming from tho, I find similar things interesting- what upsets one and not another, etc..![]()
It is very sad. I don't doubt he's a lovely person. But fatal calamitous errors in judgement frequently have consequences, and this one left one person without their life.
It's just weird for me, I guess....I consider how many posts I've seen here where a mom's boyfriend hurts her child, and people get all up in arms about how she needs all her children removed and whatnot. Someone's even been calling for forced sterilization of long-term drug addicts over on another thread...it's just interesting how some people's errors in judgement can be overlooked easier than others. If, say, the coach was under the influence of marijuana when they entered that cave, would he still be getting the same amount of slack? Rhetorical, just kinda where I'm coming from, I guess.
I'll not belabor my pointBack to watching for more news!
Hands all extra tomatoes to @Spellbound.
Heavy rained predicted according to NYT article. Cave that is known to be dangerous. What happened was not exactly completely unexpected.No tomatoes here but I think what it boils down to for me is the following facts:
1. They had been in the cave several times before without incident. Why would he suddenly think this could happen?
2. It wasn't officially monsoon season yet. The cave sign clearly says to stay out after July but it was still June. So it's not like he ignored the warning at the front of the cave.
3. The parents and family knew about this trip. It was planned, it wasn't a spur-of-the-moment thing. Some told their kids they couldn't go and those kids stayed behind. The boys brought lunches, snacks and flashlights. The kids also had taken many other adventures together such as swimming in waterfalls, rafting on rivers and cycling over mountains.
4. The coach's past makes him sympathetic, IMO. He lost his parents at about the age of 10 and was raised by the monks. In many ways, I think of him as just another boy himself.
5. The intention. He was trying to teach the kids something good, not intending any harm. It didn't work out the way he planned this time. If this was an American Boyscout leader who got stranded with his troop at an annual trip to the Grand Canyon and they all had to be rescued, would you feel the same about the situation?
6. His reaction when the floods came-- he kept them together, kept them calm, taught them to meditate, taught them to only drink water dripping through the rocks, told them to only use one flashlight at a time, etc. He didn't abandon them or panic them or do anything reckless once they knew they were in danger. He sacrificed his food so the boys could eat a little bit longer.
7. None of the locals who know the coach have said they are upset with him or want him to face charges. Only foreigners have brought up the posiblity of charges. The locals have said the opposite-- and that he has treated the boys like his own children in the past. He created a program for the poorer boys on the team to earn sports equipment if they got good grades in school.
It's easy to look at a situation with hindsight and say someone should have planned better or avoided a danger altogether. Personally, I can't find any blame for the coach under the circumstances as we know them. JMO.