When looking at someone else actions and also looking to analyse their written words and verbal words [interviews etc] then I always find it helpful to first write down what I would have said and done. Again this isn't personalised. You can always do research on what other people would have said and done. For example, the Mccanns...... If I had found one of my children was missing I can categorically say that I would NOT have left the other two children alone whilst going back to the tapas restaurant to tell people Madeleine was missing. There's the question I guess as to whether Kate was too drunk to know what she was doing. Would I have, as Kate did, refuse to comment with the police? No, I would have done everything and anything to find my daughter. Strange behaviour . So going back to Claudia in the same vein, in 2010, would I have said as JK did that I have to move on in life and that Claudia would understand this???????? NOOOOOO. I might have actually thought it, like I have to move on now, but I would never have said it, because it wouldn't have been the "normal" [yes, I know NORMAL is a generalised word and that there are perimeters ] thing to say. If my best friend was missing, I would never have stated that! Some things are thought, some things are said. There's moving on in life alongside the continuation of finding out what happened to Claudia.