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Not 17 inches long though.
I just want to say...I am so intrigued with the input of everyone on this site. But please get rid of this notion that PR and JR "thought she was dead after BR hit her over the head-so they staged the cover up". I have been in a medical field for 25 years, and been with hundreds of people at or after their time of death. You can tell if someone is dead!! For God's sake-especially if it was your child!!! You would check for a pulse all over their body---look and feel for breathing-look at their skin color!!!!!
even f I were NOT a medically trained professional-I would certainly assess for the normal functions of life!!! Please get rid of this notion that they thought she was dead-I have tried to hold my tongue on this for so long, but it is simply not realistic.
Yes, what I meant was that she was not strangled while conscious, first, and then hit with something, and then strangled again to her death, which is what some here seem to believe happened.
So just to clarify - the white line is where the cord was when she was actually strangled, but where it was furrowed into her neck came *after* she had died?
It actually could be 17 inches from scalp to tip. IMO since I don't any children handy to measure. My former preschool classes used to be helpful for these things but I've changed jobs. But when I was 7, my mother got my hair cut and they cut a foot off and I still had shoulder length or slightly longer hair and my hair wasn't crazy long prior. I'm certain one of y'all out there have a 6-year old around somewhere.... So... Hintedy hint hintNot 17 inches long though.
I don't think it does, because a child of Burke's age could not form the intent to commit either of the crimes the indictments accuse the parents of assisting with or being accessory to. So I think it's a grey area.
If it was clear we wouldn't still be discussing it.
For the record, I highly doubt that, but think as you may. If it were my child, believe me I would ascertain if she were alive or dead!!! But we all have our own opinions, which makes this world much more interesting. (this is in answer to the person who said that non-medical people might not know if someone was alive or dead).
If I may add a word....
There is forgiveness as we know it in faith, a participation in God's ongoing and eternal forgiveness, and there's forgiveness as a human experience. So often the intention and desire to forgive are present, but the heart does not, cannot, line up behind them right away. It needs time to work through the shock, the anger,the helplessness, the pain, the grief, whatever it is it must come to terms with. Forgiveness as we know it in faith is what anchors us until the storms of the heart subside. When Jesus teaches that we must forgive not seven times but "seventy times seven", He is speaking metaphorically. He means we must forgive without limit, as God forgives. But I think He is also telling us how well He understands our human hearts and the long effort it can take to reconcile faith with experience. He is commanding us to forgive seventy times seven and, at the same time, saying He understands it may take us that long.
It's hard to generalize about the Ramseys because they're so weird, but when they said the killer deserved forgiveness, and they weren't angry with the person, it was a good guess right then that it was a family member or friend. While it's not impossible to immediately forgive a murderous stranger who bashed your daughter's head in, strangled her with a cord, and molested her with a paintbrush, what are the chances of that kind of virtue growing unseen on the pageant circuit, in a life of conspicuous consumption, only to flower in the light of TV studios?
They made Burke look up to her and he was mad.
Case closed.
Didn't a guy with Aspergers toss his mother off a boat 2 weeks ago and was suspected of killing his grandfather several years ago.
-Nathan Carman-
Nice post.
Well JR has been known to give talks in church about forgiveness. (That’s quite interesting in light of his professed hatred of the BPD for persecuting his family and allowing the real killer to escape. Sarcasm.)
But what I found most revealing about JR’s role within the context of this horrendous event was his question ‘why.’ The issue ‘why’ was muttered by JR the evening of the 26th. Again on the CNN interview he phrased the same thought: ‘For our grief to resolve itself we now have to find out why this happened.’ His question points to the idea that he did not grasp the motivation and actions of the family member responsible, and it really appeared he did not have a clue there was any ‘trouble in River City.’
It would have taken courage, seemingly far beyond their personal strength, to allow BR to receive the therapy he needed after JB’s death. (A child doesn't know how much he needs therapy or medicine.) But PR and JR put their own needs above the needs of BR. It’s doubtful a social services or judicial review would have ordered containment in an institute for life. It’s Colorado after all, and the Rs had connections. But undoubtedly the authorities would have ordered more intensive therapy than he received in Atlanta (a psychiatrist visit once every 3 weeks). Imo, the Rs’ egos and reputation superseded BR’s needs.
And then look at what else they taught him: Sue anyone for imagined harm, ruin careers, throw friends under the bus, all because of their need to run from their responsibility in this.They obviously protected themselves and BR at a cost greater than they’d planned. But for their daughter in the basement, heartbreakingly, there hadn't been much protection at all.
I'm reminded of a line Robert DeNiro has in Sleepers: If you run from this, you'll run until you die. One of them already has.
You're absolutely correct, TeaTime. C.R.S. 18-1-801 (Insufficient age) states the following (bbm):
Although a child under the age of 10 cannot be charged with an offense, it does not necessarily follow that the child cannot violate the law. In enacting the statute, the general assembly determined those persons who could be held responsible for their criminal acts, not that such persons could not commit the acts. People v. Miller, 830 P.2d 1092, (Colo. App. 1991).
The reference to People v. Miller, 830 P.2d 1092 (http://www.leagle.com/decision/19911...%20v.%20MILLER) was from a case in which a parent appealed her conviction of Contributing the Delinquency of a Minor because the child was too young to be charged with a crime (theft). From that Appeals Court opinion:
Miller first contends that the trial court erred in denying her motion for judgment of acquittal on the charge of contributing to the delinquency of a minor. She asserts that her eight-year-old son was not charged with theft because a child under the age of ten cannot be charged and convicted of any offense. Section 18-1-801, C.R.S. (1986 Repl.Vol. 8B). Thus, according to Miller, since it was impossible for her son to violate any state law, she cannot be found guilty of contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
The Appeals Courts decision states:
Here, the language of the statute is clear and unambiguous. The General Assembly is concerned with adults who encourage children under eighteen to commit crimes. The statute does not require that the minor be charged or convicted of a crime nor does it require the minor to be over the age of ten.
Further, Miller's reliance on § 18-1-801 is misplaced. Although a child under the age of ten cannot be charged with an offense, it does not necessarily follow that the child cannot violate the law. Rather, in enacting § 18-1-801, the General Assembly determined those persons who could be held responsible for their criminal acts. It did not determine that such persons could not commit the acts themselves. Cf. Thompson v. Oklahoma, 487 U.S. 815, 108 S.Ct. 2687, 101 L.Ed.2d 702 (1988). We therefore conclude that even though Miller's son was only eight years old at the time of her offense, Miller could be found guilty of contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
And in C.R.S. 18-6-701 (Contributing to the delinquency of a minor) Annotations, it states:
An adult may be charged with violating this statute regardless of whether the minor was actually charged with or convicted of a crime or whether the minor was old enough to be charged with or convicted of a crime. People v. Miller, 830 P.2d 1092 (Colo. App. 1991).
“I really don’t think the Ramseys would have left it out on the counter had they known Burke just used it on his sister,” says Ms Wilson. “I think that was out for other reasons — they were probably using it for what they were doing down in the basement.”
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@bold
true BUT maybe they weren/t even told about the head bash if BDI?