I just have to respond to this. I'm not crazy about how Cindy has, imo, interfered with this investigation. However, unless, and I am dead serious about this, you, or anyone else throwing these comments out, have actually EXPERIENCED FIRST HAND dealing with someone like this, especially if it is your child, you have no idea what is involved. It isn't a black and white matter of enabling because you want to baby them or bury your head in the sand, it is also a lot of fear of the person doing harm to themselves. The manipulation is very intense, and I ended up coming into contact with a lot of other families with this problem. It is a nightmare I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy, and again, you (generic) don't have a clue looking in from the outside.
Respectfully,
Lanie