Housing in that area is pretty inexpensive compared to the Denver Metro area. She purchased for around 180,000 according to Teller County records and Trulia. With low interest rates in May she probably is paying less than rent would be. And if she was in the military she would have gotten help with a down payment and a VA loan. But the condo is in her name only. Not that these things really matter except for everyone wondering about her relationship status.If her fiance lives with his parents, he probably doesn't own the house. Or even if he doesn't live with them, it might not be his house.
It's a duplexMaybe they planned to add on in the future?
Do you have mutual freinds in common with KB?Am I allowed to say all my mutual friends are in Spokane, so I’m guessing she lived in Spokane.
One more thought.
In SDA culture it might be “shameful” to have a daughter have a child out of wedlock and then not stay with that person.
It’s bad enough to have a baby out of wedlock, but to also not stay with them would be a double whammy.
I’ve had friends get divorced and their parents felt uncomfortable with it. SDAs have a very traditional view of marriage and divorce is a big deal.
How do we know they were still together? The family might publicly be “saving face” still trying to paint a perfect family picture as much as possible.
I hope so, and I hope she is there. And safe.Another question before I have to go...
I wonder if KB had a "happy place," or "safe place" where she would go from time to time. Someplace tied to her history.
Not everyone is close to their mother. For some people their mother is the last person they’d share information with.Exactly especially if she were the one to send them and she's trying to start over or flee, why not tell your mom if you bother to tell anyone at all? That's why I highly doubt she sent those texts. I mean it's obvious that she probably didn't but looking into the specifics of it, it makes no sense at all. But none of it does! Frustrating.
YesDo you have mutual freinds in common with KB?
Maybe, but housing in Colorado is not cheap, at all. What 29 year old who just had a kid is buying a house when her supposedly fiance already owns a house? It's not like she moved to where she worked (pueblo). It's still QUITE a drive to get from woodland park to pueblo. None of their situation really makes sense to me, unless they were not together. Which why not just come out and say that.
Also to all wondering about the weather. I went to C springs on thanksgiving and I remember it was very nice outside. We were cooking outside with no coats/short sleeve shirts on. We even watched the football games in the garage with the doors open. So whoever said it would be unusual she had a short sleeve shirt on at the store...no.
I have driven through that area for work many times. Lots of wide open spaces.I plugged a previous address for Kelsey into Google maps.
One of the routes from her current house to that one, takes the driver through Twin Falls, which is right on the border of Gooding.
That could in theory, explain why the ping would show up where it did.
The word is sure out there in your community, which is great!Y
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It’s just a couple hours. Usually 9:30-12. They do children’s programs first and church after. Churches are all different, and some more conservative, but if I didn’t show up no one would notice. Especially with the holiday on Thursday many people wouldn’t attend the following Saturday because of travel or family.
Another question before I have to go...
I wonder if KB had a "happy place," or "safe place" where she would go from time to time. Someplace tied to her history.
The word is sure out there in your community, which is great! Do you know her?
I think it's important to remember that her family is protecting her reputation. They are, naturally, hoping that she returns to them. If she was struggling mentally or doing anything that they don't think she would want people to know, they may not reveal that publicly because of the harm it would cause if she returned. I remember Nicole Mittendorff's case, they didn't reveal that they had found a suicide note until after her body was located because they still hoped to find her alive.
I don't think we can rule out that a third party is involved or she left on her own, though I don't see either as the most likely scenario.
If she and PF were having problems, he could have been respecting a request for space to clear her head. That's the only reason I can think of for why he didn't report her missing. I have tried to keep in mind that he may have tried to contact her while she was missing and we just have not been told about it..
Hopefully more information is shared with us soon. And hopefully some search warrants are granted so the police can get answers