Gardener1850
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I agree there probably had not been anything formalized in the past, and they probably were trying to do it loosely for the first year of K’s life.
But what I’m suggesting is that the arrangement as it had existed may have started to break down due to changes in circumstances. KB went from being a renter to a homeowner. If it’s true that her job paid around 50k or so, and she had bought a $200k home, she may have started to have conversations with PF about the need for change. Something along the lines of, “I moved all the way out here to be with you, and we had a baby, and now I’ve bought a home. My payments are higher. We need to get married because two can live together cheaper than one, and I’m struggling right now financially. Either that, or I need to sell the house, in which case I’m just going to move back to WA with K.”
So in this scenario PF would have started to feel pressure from KB. Not so much in a relationship sense as in a financial sense. With the reports that finances haven’t been great for him either, combined with maybe the prospect of an affair (since he met KB online, he might have never left the online life behind), he could have followed the Chris Watts recipe for disaster. Drowning financially, the current relationship has become more of a burden than a blessing, someone new gets him excited, and the two worlds have an incompatibility that he solves in the worst way imaginable.
The average starting salary for Doss Aviation Flight instructors is $74,000 to $84,000 according to this: https://www.glassdoor.com/Hourly-Pa...t-Instructor-Hourly-Pay-E245186_D_KO14,31.htm
Doss Aviation was KB's second flight instructor job in CO-- she previously worked at Springs Aviation in 2016. I think she would have been making in the upper range. JMO.
She purchased her townhouse for $184,900: https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/269-E-Lake-Ave-Woodland-Park-CO-80863/62719652_zpid/
I don't think KB had financial problems. JMO.