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Victoria Stafford case. Her Mom held almost daily pressers and she was pretty much tarred and feathered.
By the police?
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Victoria Stafford case. Her Mom held almost daily pressers and she was pretty much tarred and feathered.
By the police?
IMO The private & successful search effort for Amanda Eller was incredible. She was found out of the search area by air, IIRC. They had incredible mapping technology, friends, family and knowledgeable folks that kept at it.
However, IMO, that private search effort is not the standard with most missing persons cases. There will be disappointment if it is. We did see something similar in missing WA hiker Sam Sayers. But then her mom & boyfriend’s side split. It became nasty. The boyfriend archived the page in the height of private searches still happening. She has not been recovered.
IMO, this case is different and from my POV being treated like foul play, not misadventure.
SM FB page was never even close to the same even when it was being updated. It was mostly online articles & reminders about the tip line. I don’t fault the family for leaving it. I do think it’s possible the last intended post was BM video.
Back to Amanda Eller- I remember her boyfriend & friend to both of them being absolutely crucified by people accusing them of harming her. Same thing happened to Sam Sayers boyfriend. I wonder how that impacts them personally? It has to be terrible. If folks are staying silent because they don’t want to put themselves out there, I totally get it. I don’t at all believe it’s an indicator that SM was not loved & missed right now. The immediate families lives have been turned upside down. I believe they are also in the dark with where LE is right now. There’s not really much to say on the page.
Just my thoughts.
Poor Azaria Chamberlain
And apparently the McCanns.
I’m an anxious person and this likely colors my thoughts on why he was pacing and looking out the window; maybe he was on the lookout for arresting officers who were coming to get him.I questioned that a while back. My impression was that he was looking to see if LE was watching his movements (which would be logical in such cases) but some thought he was actually looking for SM.
He was staying at a friends house, iirc. Why would she be walking around on the streets?
And yet he refused to stay silent. For me it comes back down to desperation. It is exceedingly rare that innocent people refuse to talk about their missing loved one. Look how Silly just posted about Victoria Stanford’s mom giving repeated press conferences. Same with Elizabeth Smart’s dad. Also Isabel Celos’ family gave several statements to the public. Worked hard to find her.
Commendable recordThe record is 5, which is one that will never be broken.
Any updates on the La Beca Cafe? Has the NamUs site been updated, altered? I'm out of zone so can't register.
@Seattle1, do you still have the French review you found , any chance you could post it here .... no worries if not .... I do tend to get overly obsessed about certain things.
That cafe at 300 W Sackett Ave, Salida - seems to be called Little Cambodia now, was Seasons, has been Rivers Edge ....
Just curious to confirm because it is next to that bike shop and wondering if she went there to tell them about her jammed brakes and made an appointment to get
it fixed, maybe was going to bring bike in on the Saturday? That would be completely interesting. But then again, with the Corona Virus, h'mm, maybe nothing was open at the time. Will keep looking ......
Good hypothetical there @K9Enzo ..................I personally believe it would be next to impossible to get all balled up in a plot when it's whitewater season. Come September through March......sure, why not? I am going to give it some more thought, though. As always IMOHave we considered all possible types of PoI's?
One type of (hypothetical) PoI not yet discussed AFAIK is a (hypothetical) friend/boyfriend of a teen girl. I recall a few teen girls' whose parent(s) expressed disapproval (direct, subtle, or diplomatic) of friend/boyfriend, who then reacted by threatening, injuring, or killing girl's parent(s) but cannot think of any case names. I believe there's no basis for thinking ^ here and any post discussing anything beyond ^ likely violates WS ToS.
Jmo, ^ that's at bottom of possibilities list, tied w a little green man in flying saucer landing on US 50 and whisking SM away back to Mars, his home planet.
Good hypothetical there @K9Enzo ..................I personally believe it would be next to impossible to get all balled up in a plot when it's whitewater season. Come September through March......sure, why not? I am going to give it some more thought, though. As always IMO
Good question. I never saw the building site as good for a body but certainly a go for hiding and/or destroying evidence of crime.If they hadn’t excavated the BM jobsite I would be more inclined to go in that direction. I did wonder early on if any of BM’s employees made a short list.
If they hadn’t excavated the BM jobsite I would be more inclined to go in that direction. I did wonder early on if any of BM’s employees made a short list.
When he didn’t speak to the media within the first week, that was one week too long.How long?
At what point do the scales start to tip so that B.Morphew’s silence does start to look suspicious?
For those on the fence, who keep us on our toes (thank you), how long?
If Mophew thinks the investigation has already been totally bungled, one would imagine he’d feel even more compelled to shout loud enough for all to hear, “Where is my wife? Where is Suzanne? We need more help!”
Maybe 30 days is “too soon.” How about 40, 60, 100, a year? At some point, the scale would seem to tip. Because a reasonable person would plead with the world....at some point. No matter how unflattering, whether ill advised or blabbering, at some point, a loving spouse speaks up.
BBMWhen he didn’t speak to the media within the first week, that was one week too long.
I’d be in front of the camera on day one, and I wouldn’t stop. If I was too emotional to handle that, I would appoint someone to do that for me.
Here, that person (TN) actually told the media not to show his face, and then went dark within days. It’s almost as if he doesn’t want to be associated with BM.
So it’s on BM now, and I wouldn’t hold my breath.
Yes. Something to the effect of “my aunt,” and “her husband.” Which is weird, because he’s from BM’s side of the family.BBM
From the minute it happened he tried to disassociate with BM by describing Suzanne as his aunt...not saying he is BMs nephew. It might be splitting hairs but I see it as significant given how this is playing out.