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#1 - I think the "meat and greet" (clever!) was for three purposes:
- Solidify plans with each other so each had a clear understanding of what they were to do the next day.
- Transfer KM's deactivated cellphone to FD to give to MT to stage manage the next day (reactivating KM's phone at 7:29 am and then deactivating it again at 8:22 am to give the appearance KM was meeting with FD at the Fore Group offices when neither was in fact there). MT made a mistake in that she deactivated KM's phone at 8:22 am, 2 minutes BEFORE AT's 8:24 am call came in to FD's phone, which MT was also stage managing. In her confusion choreographing the two phones, she neglected to leave KM's on to give the appearance he was present when AT's call came in as she told LE he was. She said KM gestured for her to answer FD's phone as it rang where it sat on the table. How could KM do that if he had already left the premises with his phone?
- Transfer FD's 2015 black Chevy Suburban with doctored plates to KM for driving to New Canaan the next morning, with the intent that JFD's body (or JFD, if she was abducted alive) would be transferred from JFD's Suburban to FD's Suburban a short distance from her home. I think that transfer is why it took 13 minutes for JFD's Suburban to get to the Lapham Rd turnout (a drive that should only take 3 minutes).
Once JFD was likely transferred to FD's Chevy Suburban shortly before 10:30 am, FD likely took over as its driver and his next appearance is at 1:37 pm driving into the driveway of 80 MS Rd behind MT driving the white Jeep. That is 3 hours and 7 minutes. It took the Toyota Tacoma 1 hour 13 minutes (11:09 am to 12:22 pm) to travel from New Canaan to 80 MS Rd, so if the Suburban took the same route and traveled the same speed, that means 1 hour and 54 minutes of FD in his Chevy Suburban with JFD's body are unaccounted for and he somehow connected with MT driving the Jeep at some point in that timeframe (the last she accounts for her time by someone else seeing her is at 11 am when she drives to Petu's shop to say "bye" - according to MT's activity log page of the "alibi script").
Meanwhile, KM likely drove JFD's Suburban to the area near the Lapham Rd turnout, where KM then transferred all the bags of evidence, the bike, and the cargo liner from JFD's Suburban to the Toyota Tacoma. That likely took around half an hour (10:38 am is when JFD's phone arrived near the Lapham Rd turnout and it was deactivated at 11:09 am). I think KM was panicked doing this (and so, left JFD's Suburban running and "in reverse"). I think KM then drove the evidence-filled Toyota back to 80 MS Rd in Farmington where KM had left his own vehicle the night before. He drove back to Farmington using different roads than those FD had used to drive the Toyota to New Canaan earlier that morning.
I think it interesting that LE does not specify who the driver of the Toyota Tacoma was when that vehicle arrived at 80 MS Rd at 12:22 pm. I also think it interesting that LE does not specify from which direction FD's Suburban and MT driving FD's Jeep arrived at 80 MS Rd at 1:36 pm (an hour and 14 minutes after the Toyota Tacoma arrived). I also think it interesting that FD did not activate his phone that afternoon until 1:37 pm - after his return to 80 MS Rd in the Suburban*. And I think that upon arrival at 80 MS Rd at 1:36 pm, that was the first that FD and MT got a good look at the interior of the Toyota Tacoma and realized they had a lot of work to do cleaning it up before PG arrived to retake possession of it. Maybe they thought that back at Lapham Rd, KM would have moved all the bags into the BACK of the pickup rather than the interior, where the bags would spill JFD's blood into the upholstery. (* Why, if FD arrived at 80 MS Rd at 12:22 pm wouldn't he have activated his phone when he got to 4JC for lunch? And if FD did drive the Toyota Tacoma back to 80 MS Rd, then how did he get to 4JC - the bicycle? I doubt a man who used a bicycle in the commission of the murder of his wife earlier that day would take a chance on being seen riding it later that afternoon.)
I could be totally wrong about all of this, but I think the person who
left JFD's Suburban running and in reverse was in panic mode. I think throwing all those bags into the interior of the Toyota rather than its bed was also panic mode. That mode is consistent with the panic that would drive a person to destroy their own cell phone (telling LE they fell down stairs and so broke the phone). And it is consistent with the panic that would drive a person to grab a gun and attempt to flee rather than face LE when he learns that they are coming calling. Panic mode is KM territory.
By contrast, FD was cool and above-it-all. And MT was chatty and oversharing - "I took my photo with the store robot and I was wearing...," and "I visited this person, and this person, and this person," and "FD and I enjoyed a morning romp in the shower/afternoon romp against the side of PG's pickup", and "FD and I had Pastale de Papa for lunch."
JMO.