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. Didn't that happen in another case a year or two ago? By the baby's own father?
You may be thinking of baby Ellorah
. Didn't that happen in another case a year or two ago? By the baby's own father?
I was sure I've read every link on this but, don't recall seeing this:
On the night that Shaylyn went missing, two other people entered and left the house, Morgan said. Kyle Parker, a friend of her son, Adam Ammerman, came to watch some movies with Ammerman and later left the house. Justin Ammerman's ex-girlfriend, Kelly Rogers, appears to have come into the home sometime after 4 a.m. and placed some newspapers on the counter in the kitchen before leaving, Morgan said. Rogers had been living at the house since her and Justin Ammerman broke up, Morgan said, but the family hadn't seen her since Sunday. Morgan said she did not see Rogers enter or exit the house Wednesday, but believes she entered the home because she is always the one who leaves newspapers in her kitchen.
http://www.idsnews.com/article/2016...-missing-1-year-old-girl-from-spencer-indiana
Morgan says Parker and Adam both entered and left the house?
How does Morgan know it was sometime after 4am if she was allegedly asleep by 2am (as per other articles)
I was sure I've read every link on this but, don't recall seeing this:
http://www.idsnews.com/article/2016...-missing-1-year-old-girl-from-spencer-indiana
Morgan says Parker and Adam both entered and left the house?
How does Morgan know it was sometime after 4am if she was allegedly asleep by 2am (as per other articles)
I was sure I've read every link on this but, don't recall seeing this:
http://www.idsnews.com/article/2016...-missing-1-year-old-girl-from-spencer-indiana
Morgan says Parker and Adam both entered and left the house?
How does Morgan know it was sometime after 4am if she was allegedly asleep by 2am (as per other articles)
I think it's lack of common sense to be a parent.
As much as I dislike what has been said by the family, I think everyone needs to realize that a lot of us in small town Indiana and likely small town anywhere live a bit differently than others. I know families like this, I see so many braless women in nighties at the store, it's not even funny. Most of them aren't bad people. I know nothing about this family and I'm certainly not convinced Kyle was the only one involved. I certainly wasn't impressed with anyone's interviews.
The only time we ever lock our doors is before we leave for a vacation and we have forgotten to lock them before. I don't think it's necessarily negligent. Maybe guilty of being a little too trusting.
We've had cribs in the dining room and living room before. It's not ideal, but you make do. Not everyone wants a crib in their bedroom, not everyone has room for a crib in their bedroom. I don't see it as any different than a child's bedroom being on a different floor of the house. I never once considered someone breaking in a kidnapping/murdering my children and I'm a pessimist to the core. Once they got to the age where they could escape the crib, they moved to the big girl bedroom upstairs.
While we don't "party" while our kids are home, we do occasionally have friends over for a few beers and we'll play cards and stay up late chatting or we'll sit out in the backyard around a fire. Often times, the kids will fall asleep on the floor directly next to the room we're talking in. If we're outside, I normally take them in and put them to bed and then I'll go back outside. I'm sure that terrifies some people.
I think it's easy to point fingers when something bad happens, but I doubt Shaylyn's crib being in the living room really played a major role in her death. Kyle and others were in the house already, so locking the door wouldn't have mattered. Alcohol may have played a role, but there are tons of parents who have a drink or two with their kids at home who feel perfectly comfortable doing so.
Maybe the date of one of the newspapers was that morning and it would not have been published by 2? Just my own guess as to how that leap is being made by grandma
I think it's easy to point fingers when something bad happens, but I doubt Shaylyn's crib being in the living room really played a major role in her death. Kyle and others were in the house already, so locking the door wouldn't have mattered. Alcohol may have played a role, but there are tons of parents who have a drink or two with their kids at home who feel perfectly comfortable doing so.
It's a lack of something else, and I don't even know that it's definable. It's not money; it's not even intelligence or ability, really, because I've known people with intellectual disabilities and delays who were able to parent successfully. It's not even dirt -- you can keep a cluttered, messy house and still parent lovingly and reasonably safely (if perhaps more dirtily than most, lol). There's something else missing, and I'm not sure that whatever is missing is easy to address since it's virtually indefinable. (Or maybe it is just because it's hard for me to pinpoint).
I agree with you to some extent in that those in poverty have a hard time breaking the cycle and that many that suffer from poverty appear as the type of people we have been discussing. However...it is not poverty that I am talking about.
It's a family 'type' and I often see people like this that are not poor. To use the Avery/Dassey clan again..they may appear poor by the way they dress, etc. but they were far from living in poverty. Successful business, drove nice vehicles, LOTS of money in equipment, good share of property, etc.
I personally know a local family that owns a towing service and they are loaded with money, yet many would see them and affiliate them with poverty. Nothing could be further than the truth.
You can't always judge a book by its cover when it comes to money in the bank. It's more of a lifestyle than bank accounts.
I'm not saying this family in particular is rich, poor or in-between. I'm just stating that it is not always poverty that gives the vibe these people do, and answering your post.![]()
I don't know. Her page is very interesting in several spots. Finding it the minute she was named by the grandma helped me form my first (and prevailing theory.)
The pic of Grandma & Grandpa with Shaylyn, then Kelly writes, My baby girl is getting so big, just really rubs me the wrong way. Was she even Justin g/f at that point. Why do people take selfies and why in a bathroom of all places.Anyone remember what time she left, did she sleep there?
RIP Lil Angel Shaylyn