I emailed the mom on fb 2 nights ago, she has a site set up searching for Beaner on there. Asked her if she told LE about this. she didnt respond, which suprises me. I told her that we are discussing this on ws and asked her to advise.
I dont know what to do. I contacted LE about another case (my old neighbor who's been missing since early 90's and a possible match) and they just blew me off IMO. I'm nervous about that happening again. On the other hand there may be something to this. I mean, some one giving her barbies shortly before, and she said she was packing to go to her new home?? It is possible IMO that someone was stalking Beaner before she disappeared and that someone could have seen the ad online.
I will tell you that I found out a couple years ago that I have a brother. I went on adoption.com and not only found him in 15 min (afterall I am the sleuthster lol) but I found his address and ph# in Minn and called it, left a message. Had also emailed the adress on account and his adoptive sister responded, he had NO idea about the ad and was shocked I found him and the a sister had put the ad on there. I told her that I was backing off and she needed to also. He knows how to reach me now. Point is, if I could find this info in less then half an hour, I am sure that someone could have found Beaner's family the same way. The mom put her full name, husbands name, father's name, what they do for a living (husband's company # he works for) etc.
Bad bad idea and another thing, maybe she didnt tell LE this because she didnt think anything of it but..it is quite possible that someone did contact her about this ad.