I want to make it clear I'm not asserting particular guilt or innocence. IMO EP seems like the sort of person who cannot, or finds it very difficult to, take 'no' for an answer. And a strong sense of feeling scorned by others who see things differently to her. 'Gaslighting', 'abusive', all sorts of "therapy language" that can also be weaponised. Obviously I don't know the full situation, none of us do, but this sort of rage expressed through text is terrifying. IMO JMO
May I ask which parts of the evidence in particular you found helpful in sketching her character as this? I’m super curious because for me, there’s been frustratingly little provided by the prosecution for me to form any real opinion. I confess I was hoping we’d get more, if only because I sleep better at night when I can believe the killers amongst us are easily identifiable!
But with the exception of the events around the crimes she’s accused of, everything I’ve seen of EP seems fairly ordinary. Yes, there are examples of her bitching about her husband and in laws, but nothing particularly unusual, or wildly vitriolic.
It all seems like things ordinary, reasonable and non-murderous people might do or say too, during life’s stresses and strains.
If we take the exchanges about the husband and child support as an example; what *should* EP have done in this situation, if she genuinely believed their father was skirting his responsibilities to their kids?
I’m sure we can agree there are circumstances where ‘not taking no for an answer’ and pushing would be the *right* thing to do, and not an indication of any great character flaw or pathology. If you imagine for a moment she’s absolutely in the right on this, the messages just seem like her fighting for her kids.
We haven’t really had enough evidence to determine whose claim was more credible here, but we do know SP was paying a very small amount of Child maintenance, so we know her claims were not totally without basis.
I’ve certainly known ppl very much like who you’re describing, and IME they usually leave a trail of social transgressions in their wake. Conflict with the kids’ school, with other parents, with neighbours, and heaps of scathing reviews for businesses etc. Refusing her barrister’s advice and insisting on self representation, or taking the stand. All of this may be true for EP too, but afaik we haven’t seen any of it to date. I guess I’m just hungry for something tangible lol
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