Beekarina
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<modsnip: Quoted post was removed> ... I can see the home Pheobe was living in with the housemates, bags of trash everywhere and clearly that is not a place fit for anyone to be living in its current, and presumedly recent condition.
Pheobe looks well/normal/clean enough if a maybe little "bohemian" (and certainly nothing wrong with that!) in the many photos of her. She doesn't look like a young person who was mistreated or living rough or anything when those were taken. Yes, she may have gone to lengths to hide bad things, certainly possible. But assuming she was living in some sort of family situation, she doesn't appear terribly neglected, IMO, at least outwardly so.
It would seem everything went poorly once she moved in with the housemates in terms of looking "like she did not belong to anyone." Now if her aunt worked at the same grocery store as the quoted IGA employee, THAT I find VERY curious. For me that would move the conversation from receiving texts from a kid "who had to have her own way, had a big mouth" and whatever else she said about PB to a situation where you really should intervene. And maybe she did and just has not said as much, we also do not know.
Could be in the small town people were afraid of the housemates. TB's record alone is not exactly cuddly. But maybe no one thought they would harm Pheobe. I could also see that, especially if TB does have partial custody of her kids. I'd personally run screaming, but small towns where everyone is related and/or knows everyone, well people also make excuses for some really outrageous stuff too. "Oh yeah they shoot guns, but she's really a sweetheart, Made me the best cookies last time I saw her.: I'm not joking, I have heard stuff like this. Or "He never would do that. I went to school with him, all the grades." Like, I know him/her, they're LOCAL, it will be OK.
Pheobe looks well/normal/clean enough if a maybe little "bohemian" (and certainly nothing wrong with that!) in the many photos of her. She doesn't look like a young person who was mistreated or living rough or anything when those were taken. Yes, she may have gone to lengths to hide bad things, certainly possible. But assuming she was living in some sort of family situation, she doesn't appear terribly neglected, IMO, at least outwardly so.
It would seem everything went poorly once she moved in with the housemates in terms of looking "like she did not belong to anyone." Now if her aunt worked at the same grocery store as the quoted IGA employee, THAT I find VERY curious. For me that would move the conversation from receiving texts from a kid "who had to have her own way, had a big mouth" and whatever else she said about PB to a situation where you really should intervene. And maybe she did and just has not said as much, we also do not know.
Could be in the small town people were afraid of the housemates. TB's record alone is not exactly cuddly. But maybe no one thought they would harm Pheobe. I could also see that, especially if TB does have partial custody of her kids. I'd personally run screaming, but small towns where everyone is related and/or knows everyone, well people also make excuses for some really outrageous stuff too. "Oh yeah they shoot guns, but she's really a sweetheart, Made me the best cookies last time I saw her.: I'm not joking, I have heard stuff like this. Or "He never would do that. I went to school with him, all the grades." Like, I know him/her, they're LOCAL, it will be OK.
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