Is there any reason to assume that the "family" would poison a lady they barely knew? Fontelle had not even seen Bob in a great many years, yet they married very quickly.
If this was my father would it raise my eyebrows? You bet it would!! I would be checking into her and her family quickly. Then my questions would start as I would assume that as his wife, she would receive his pension money. When I state that NO ONE gets a free pass from me I mean it. There are some colourful individuals peripherally that I believe deserve to be scrutinized deeper.
Not only has it been alluded that AH has committed mortgage fraud, now it is being alluded that the family might poison Fontelle? I feel like I am in the Twilight zone here. You guys must be joking right? If one is not joking is there anything that someone can point me in the direction that this poisoning theory has any merit to it?
Call me confused!
There is no poisoning theory since it has not happened yet. And, as I said in my post, it may be that I am just a paranoid nutjob.
The basis of my paranoia is that Bob, the father and grandfather of a group of people who had depended on him for substantial financial help in the past felt he had to give his daughters $15K each to stay away from him for 6 months. That doesn't speak to a close and loving relationship.
Those daughters have published truly horrible things about their father since Bob disappeared.
They appear to be looting his estate.
They have repeatedly made allegations about the woman who cut his hair... who is the only person cleared by the Placentia Police Department. Their civil suit against her to recover money they described as a loan ended up as a farce, when the judge ruled they had not proven one single element against her.
Meanwhile, AH, a grandson, is allowed to walk away from a $700+K debt to his grandfather with the co-conservators' cooperation.
The only person who appears to be trying to do anything to find Bob is Fontelle, his wife.
And now the co-conservators, who are supposed to be acting as if Bob were still alive, are going to court to force Fontelle to pay rent? Since when do husbands normally charge their wives rent?
Tangential note: if my widower father found someone he loved as much as Bob loved Fontelle, I would be the first person to say "don't waste time, get married and enjoy a long, wonderful honeymoon!"
I sincerely hope my father spends all his money and dies in his sleep 40 years from now after eating his favourite dessert.
He raised me, he supported me, it's time for me to give back. I don't post notes critical of his choices in frozen dinners to the internet; I make my dad's favourite foods and freeze them in serving size portions for him.
When my niece, who is disabled, had a hissy fit and left her mom's house, I took her in for a year and spent that time working with her to help her grow up some (at 22, she has the emotional development of a 12 year old according to her psychologist) and to mend relationships with her family. The last thing on my mind was charging her parents rent. But when JuM and her family had to evacuate due to wildfires, her sister charged her rent.
There is something wrong, all right. I think we differ on where that something wrong may be located.
Or, as I said, I may be a paranoid nutjob.