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I know the witness got a "bullied" impression from them, but I don't know that that gels with what has been presented about their life in Port Alberni.
If anything, Bryer seems like he had a tendency to bully people himself, and even when he creeped people out, their reactions seems to have been to ignore him/avoid him rather than bully him.
Kam was described as not having lots of friends, but it seems like he was well-liked in general by his friends and acquaintances and not regarded as an outcast weirdo by the community at large.
I'm wondering if being on the run was what was bullying them, if that makes sense--stressing them out and making them give off that vibe more than they ordinarily would.
Edited to add: I think they both (and especially BS) had a tendency to present differently to an adult, which they certainly would have considered the witness, rather than a peer. Even though Bryer was frequently awful to his peers and had a tense relationship with some of his relatives, most of his interactions with adults were apparently polite.
Good points! Maybe not bullied but resentful maybe? Personally, I've always been interested and like fringe people but there's a difference between choosing to be on the fringe and ostracized and on the fringe if that makes sense.
I had a creepy encounter at my work place years ago where a young guy (another employee from another department) boldly stared at my chest in a coffee line up. I asked him if he had a problem - he was so cocky, just smiled and said no and kept staring! I was shocked and looked around to see if anyone else was hearing/seeing this interaction. It made me squirm and he totally enjoyed that, he had complete nerve. Later that night he sauntered past my work area (my area was on my uniform in the coffee line up) and harassed me, it was so creepy as I was working alone except for another girl in a different area in the back. She came out after I told her and he kept strolling in and out and didn't even flinch and wasn't intimidated. I filed a complaint with security and he had a few apparently. I often wonder if these personality types are harmless or time bombs!
When I hear about BS, I think of my encounter with that guy (who was a skinny scrawny little guy)... nervy and relished in making people unnerved.