@DeDee bbm sbm Thx for your post. Sorry that you went thru that dangerous departure but glad it worked & you are here w us.
Re bbm I recall reading this early on and thinking it may have been true - that SM was not eager to move to CO.
I've known some ppl moving hundreds of miles away from family and lifelong hometown who told people
(including fam) that they did not really, really, really want to move, and were so, so, so sorry to leave. Some were telling the absolute truth.
Some relatives saw the move as reflecting on them, almost an insult, a
betrayal of family - how dare you move away from this perfect clan's nest in Shangri-la. By expressing hesitation or doubt about the move, some movers were just trying to
placate those relatives.
Not saying saying this was true for SM or her family, just considering possibilities.