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Amazing post; you have managed to verbalize everything I have been thinking of in a delicate and eloquent way.
I am thinking that (allegedly) feeling their mom is not with them, one question that kids ask themselves in such a situation would be, “what would have our mom wanted or chosen?”
And I have a feeling that they might have arrived at a certain consensus there. Or maybe prayed and got their answer.
About trying to harm a family member - yes, either the person is not in the right mind, or is inherently weak and easily manipulated. They can also be a victim of gaslighting who were simply feeling cornered.
I don't totally disagree with you about the messiness of it. But SG's pockets are quite deep, compared to her sister who I have read in other posts may be in debt with her husband to some extent, and live in a home worth under $1M compared to SG's real estate and net worth.
I think under certain circumstances, not least of which the strain and stress of being a primary caretaker, could affect this calculation for them.
I also think it's worth pointing out that anyone that tries to harm a family member probably isn't in their right mind in the first place, or a good person
Amazing post; you have managed to verbalize everything I have been thinking of in a delicate and eloquent way.
I am thinking that (allegedly) feeling their mom is not with them, one question that kids ask themselves in such a situation would be, “what would have our mom wanted or chosen?”
And I have a feeling that they might have arrived at a certain consensus there. Or maybe prayed and got their answer.
About trying to harm a family member - yes, either the person is not in the right mind, or is inherently weak and easily manipulated. They can also be a victim of gaslighting who were simply feeling cornered.