CA CA - Maya Millete, 39, missed daughter's birthday, Chula Vista, 7 Jan 2021 #2

[Baby2Baby]

I do not have FB, so if there is any new updates posted there, would somebody please share, Thanks in advance! Also, I do not know why, but it’s bugging me that we don’t know Larry’s occupation. It’s odd to me that it hasn’t been mentioned. Soooo, was May the only one working? No judgement on stay at home dads, just considering the possibility that he was about to be in a bind if May was planning on leaving the marriage. Maybe a motive? Pure speculation and MOO

 

[Curious Me]

I do not have FB, so if there is any new updates posted there, would somebody please share, Thanks in advance! Also, I do not know why, but it’s bugging me that we don’t know Larry’s occupation. It’s odd to me that it hasn’t been mentioned. Soooo, was May the only one working? No judgement on stay at home dads, just considering the possibility that he was about to be in a bind if May was planning on leaving the marriage. Maybe a motive? Pure speculation and MOO

I agree, it's odd we haven't heard anything about what LM does for a living. JMO here, both parties can lose financial status with divorce. It seems like they were living kind of the good life. How much family income was there? I really want to know if both worked. With divorce, they'd have to set up two households. I doubt just one of them could afford to keep that house and those vehicles. All MOO though. For all I know, that house could've been paid off.
Didn't LM say Maya's job was her outlet? Sounded like she enjoyed it and she probably made good money.

If he was a stay-at-home Dad and they divorced, depending, he probably would have been awarded alimony, if Maya was the main breadwinner. There might have been a custody battle. The courts really look at prior parental involvement. Somebody might have ended up paying child support too. I can't see either of them agreeing to let the other have most custody and pay child support, only having the children on weekends. (Neither here nor there, I've heard sometimes, attorneys advise a divorcing person to buy a new vehicle before filing for divorce, so they look like they have limited disposable income to pay top support.)

It just seems that appt. with a divorce attorney may have been part of their argument or that's when he found out her plans. Please know this is all my own late-night thoughts and MOO.

 

[imstilla.grandma]

 

[BeachSky]

“Show your children you are : forgiving, thoughtful, and generous”
I did some reading up on seeking primary custody.
Yes. The laws indeed have changed thus considering a Dad as being awarded the primary caretaker. IMO said person would fail. The negative projection alone of the mother is apparent. Whilst he may be thinking his words paint him in a positive light. IMO this person comes off abrasive, flip and especially non supportive of the mother. Disturbing.


MOO

 

[Bogyo13]

I know we are all worried about the children. I saw this video this morning, and thought others might appreciate knowing that the girl's school has stepped up with support.

Just rewatched this and the last bit about the girls sharing things with friends..
All MOO:
I hope whatever suspicious info is said by the girls in lessons are watched and reported by teachers, these might not be said to police if father in attendance. Teachers have a duty of reporting anything worrying a child says or does that suggests abuse.

I'm glad to hear the families are respecting their privacy and hopefully those girls don't hear accusations about the father, they really don't need that.
I wonder, is the father in the background listening during the calls? MOO

 

[InSoCal]

Regarding the house... San Diego County has online public record searches, so I checked. Just solar and a 2013 deed to MM/LM. No recorded deed of trust, aka mortgage. Just means one isn't recorded, not that there isn't one.

 

[rosesfromangels]

“Show your children you are : forgiving, thoughtful, and generous”
I did some reading up on seeking primary custody.
Yes. The laws indeed have changed thus considering a Dad as being awarded the primary caretaker. IMO said person would fail. The negative projection alone of the mother is apparent. Whilst he may be thinking his words paint him in a positive light. IMO this person comes off abrasive, flip and especially non supportive of the mother. Disturbing.
MOO

But unfortunately, so common for warring couples. The result of this shows up on dysfunctional children. So immature and selfish, and damaging.

amateur opinion and speculation

 

[coastal]

Maya Millete search to continue | cbs8.com

The family of a missing mother from Chula Vista will spend Presidents Day weekend searching for the woman at the Glamis sand dunes in Imperial County.

Relatives of Maya Millete, 39, said they took a trip with her to Glamis over the New Year’s weekend, just days before Millete went missing on Jan. 7.

“She bought her own dirt bike recently so she started dirt biking out with us,” said Millete’s teenage niece, Rica Marie Casino.

Just reading over the thread again, and I saw this reference to Maya's new dirt bike. Do we know where the dirt bike is now? This thought brings me more questions, like, where was the dirt bike kept when she wasn't riding it? Did the family camp out in a tent (unlikely, IMO - it gets very windy out there!)? A rented motorhome? Do they have a toy-hauler type trailer? If so, where is it kept, and has it been checked for evidence of Maya? So many questions!

Where is Maya?

 

[leavetheguntakethecannoli]

I do not have FB, so if there is any new updates posted there, would somebody please share, Thanks in advance! Also, I do not know why, but it’s bugging me that we don’t know Larry’s occupation. It’s odd to me that it hasn’t been mentioned. Soooo, was May the only one working? No judgement on stay at home dads, just considering the possibility that he was about to be in a bind if May was planning on leaving the marriage. Maybe a motive? Pure speculation and MOO

@Baby2Baby:

Here’s the Help Find May FB page. It’s public and you don’t need to have an account. I’m a local and I check it regularly.
Find May/Maya Millete

 

[Spartygirl]

She had an appt with a divorce attorney on the 12th and went missing on the 7th, and the last person to see her was her husband. That seals it for me, just need some forensics to provide the link.

I agree !!!
I've been leaning on that side of the fence for awhile now but teetered back and forth for a bit.
The divorce atty appt pretty much seals it for me also, adding in the other facts known from LE.

 

[Spartygirl]

I wonder if her family are just remaining publicly "open" to ideas, as to not tip LM off that they are looking at him, but with the main priority being the children.

BBM
I 1000% believe that to be true.

 

[Spartygirl]

He wanted to perhaps remind her he had half $ownership
(even if she bought it) thus take away her joy...or the Jeep.
Sick.

MOO

Controlling. IMO

 

[Spartygirl]

Hi there. Great questions. We just found out there was an appt with a divorce attorney. Her family never mentioned it, that I know. Did they know? Stay tuned.
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While I had time waiting for my taquitos to crisp, I listened to half of the husband's phone interview again.

Phone call with husband of missing Chula Vista mom, Maya Millete - ABC 10NEWS San Diego - Omny.fm

• 00:18 Give her space
• 01:01 Give her space
• 1:27 Give each other space. Well, I don't need space, she always wants her space.
• 1:58 (JMO here, although locked in room all day Friday with daughters not home schooled and brother trying to talk to her thru door) LM hears her downstairs in kitchen, rustling around.
• 4:44 He thought she "stepped up her game."

BBM--
Yes, I caught that as well... he sure emphasized that SHE needed her space.
Also caught the "game" reference"

Now, for a slight moment I thought maybe MM decided to disappear because she feared for her life because, IMO, maybe someone was controlling, threatening her, he found out SHE had divorce Atty appointment the following week.. she got scared for her life and ran to hide.

The reason I quickly dismissed this idea is because--
1. I don't believe she would miss her child's birthday. From what we have seen and heard of Maya, her children were her everything.
2. She had a family outing planned for the Birthday...not just her, LM and kiddos, but her side of her family also for the birthday event.
3. After all this time and seeing how sad and determined her family is while searching and spreading the word, I think she would have reached out to her sister, brother or parents and let them know she is OK and in hiding. Yet they are still all searching for her, so I don't think this has happened, obviously.
4. Spouse and his family are NOT out searching. I do NOT understand not speaking to the media and helping with searches, even remotely if needed due to Covid.
5. When LM does speak, it is always in a Negative way about Maya... she needs her space, she needs space, she goes out and parties with friends. Good Lord, we are in a pandemic shut down, trying to work/keep our jobs and she had little ones trying to keep up with schooling.
I don't even have littles at home and I need to get out with friends. Yet, he makes it sound so negative and demeaning.. to him.
6. Her FB has been messed with and friends and family have been removed and blocked. LE said they did NOT do this.

So, I know there are theories that she left on her own accord and I listed the reasons I thought she would do that.
However, I listed MORE reasons of why I do NOT think this is what happened.

Sorry for the long post, but I have been so worried about Maya and also very impressed with her family and how they are handling everything.

Where are you MAYA ????

 

[ElizaKate]

Hi All,

Brand new to WS and been catching up with the disappearance of Maya today and read through all the threads and reports so far (I think).

From what I can tell it's reported the last people to see Maya were her girls on Thursday evening. On Friday morning LM leaves at 06:30 with the son and comes back at 17:00 and states he didn't see, but can hear Maya in the house - "We can hear her downstairs, after I'm done giving the kids baths, feeding them and everything". Note use of plural. So the indication here is that he is with at least one of the girls at the time, not just his son. So we are supposed to believe that one of the girls didn't say 'where's mum?' at this time? If he believes that Maya has locked herself in her room all day, there doesn't seem to be concern that the kids have been all alone all day, have they been fed etc. in addition to the welfare of Maya being behind a locked door for almost 24 hours?

One other thing I wanted to ask you guys. In the interview at @ 9:15 LM says Maya would most of the time go hiking with "Hiking Mumma's" (?) or with "Shane" (?) - Have I misheard? Who's Shane? or is this a name for a hiking group?

https://www.10news.com/news/local-n...IkQXRP7em_hpyS33AqmXIOP_WhPTp892OcD-FW35hT-wM

 

[Curious Me]

Hi All, Brand new to WS and been catching up with the disappearance of Maya today and read through all the threads and reports so far (I think)...

A big warm WELCOME @ElizaKate! You did a fine job catching up and grasping the situation on that Friday after Maya went missing.

... So we are supposed to believe that one of the girls didn't say 'where's mum?' at this time? If he believes that Maya has locked herself in her room all day, there doesn't seem to be concern that the kids have been all alone all day, have they been fed etc. in addition to the welfare of Maya being behind a locked door for almost 24 hours?...

WHERE'S MOM? You got it, dear @ElizaKate. Neither daughter mentioned to their father that their Mother did not come out of that locked bedroom door the entire day, no matter how hard they knocked? Neither daughter mentioned Maya's brother coming by?

The story of going to the beach with only one child at 6:30 a.m. is far fetched enough, and that he didn't coordinate with Maya first, didn't see her at all, and is trying to pass off that he "heard" her has been A RED FLAG for me from the start. He didn't go downstairs and the rest of Friday night he didn't try to see or talk to her? MOO, I don't believe his story at all that he thought she was in the house. MOO, I call it a lie. If only that was the only Red Flag, but no.

Gosh, Maya's family had to come by the house and practically hit him over the head with the fact that Maya was missing from Thursday night to Saturday morning... he didn't notice claiming "space, space, locked door, like roommates, wine tasting".

You caught all that though. As they say in the commercials... "But Wait There's More!" The appointment with a divorce attorney for the following Tuesday, Jan. 12th, that she never got attend says a lot.

...LM says Maya would most of the time go hiking with "Hiking Mumma's" (?) or with "Shane" (?) - Have I misheard? Who's Shane? or is this a name for a hiking group?

Who is Shane? Is he the man in the cave video with the kids that don't look like Maya's?

 

[swedeheart]

They are about to go over Larry's statement on Chris M's show, for whoever is interested. It's live now:

 

[PayrollNerd]

On the public Facebook page, the husbands employment was mentioned awhile back. (Obviously not to be shared here, as he is not a POI.)

I hope the children are able to keep up with school. It’s a good thing for them to focus on. Being cooped up can’t be good. I do hope they are able to go outside to play.

 

[Curious Me]

They are about to go over Larry's statement on Chris M's show, for whoever is interested...

I watched the show. They did discuss something I brought up before when I was talking about Maya's VPN work line. I had asked if there would be a separate investigation because she was a Defense Contractor. Yes, they confirmed that there was probably another investigation going on through the NCIS. (Naval Criminal Investigative Service) I think it's because Maya worked with military contracts, they'd have to consider any connection of that to her disappearance. The show's panel said LM probably didn't think of that.

Within the Department of the Navy, the Naval Criminal Investigative Service is the civilian federal law enforcement agency uniquely responsible for investigating felony crime, preventing terrorism and protecting secrets for the Navy and Marine Corps...
> About NCIS (navy.mil)

 

[PsychSnack]

Husband said things like I know on crime shows if someone is gone certain amount of hours, etc., He made it sound like he did watch crime shows. Please listen again if you doubt it. I'd try to find the minute mark, but can't bear to listen to it again right now.

As far as I know, the husband only gave the one phone interview that I've posted on this thread probably ten times. Here it is again. Listen to it here:
Phone call with husband of missing Chula Vista mom, Maya Millete - ABC 10NEWS San Diego - Omny.fm

This stood out to me immediately. He’s talking waaaay too much about himself here. He’s not worried at all. I can’t tell if he’s laughing or breathing in quickly several times as well which disturbs me. When he says she stepped up her game, it sounds bitter. This is all MOO.

 

[PsychSnack]

They are about to go over Larry's statement on Chris M's show, for whoever is interested. It's live now:

Ohhhhh, this is sooooooo good.