I think you should be really lucky you don't know that kind of grief. I really cant fault her for being so emotionally messed up with everything going on that she resented the help of Tim Miller. I just recently had my cat die, and as we were leaving, the lady said to me, and do you want her ashes, and I was so taken aback to hear that, I cant even imagine how I would feel if someone was asking me where they think my beautiful grandchild rotting body may be, because that was what was going on at a time where she wanted and needed to believe her granchild was alive, so if she was mean to Tim Miller, thats too bad, he shouldnt have contributed to the bashing of this woman at her lowest point in life, so I hold him at fault as well. She is not some super human and there has never been a bigger missing child case than this, and all these people who want her daughter to also die, partake in the biggest bashing of Cindy which delights Casey. I just don't get that at all.
I have known plenty of grief in my lifetime. Never lost a relative to murder or had to bury a grandchild, thank the Lord. I have personally taken two beloved dogs (at separate times) to the vets to be euthanized. Stood there with them while they died. Horrible. I have witnessed my beloved family pet back in the 90's get hit by a car right in front of me. Awfull. I have sat by countless of patients to whom I had become attached after several years of caring for them, in the hospital while they were actively dying. Terrible for my own emotional grief, on top of that had to console the family, etc.
The kind of emotionally messed up Cindy supposedly was demands a psychiatric intervention with inpatient stay. The psych folks taking care of her (if there was any) would have done this had they been more responsible. Maybe she sought no psych care, ????
There was no reason to speak badly to Tim Miller, who was there with his resources and headed up volunteers to search too.
At the Anthony's invitation, and when they later said they "fired" Tim Miller because they only wanted a search that was looking for a "live" Caylee (really?? After 31+ days of being gone, where did they think she was, living in the woods? Hanging out at Blanchard Park??) Ridiculous.
They knew what Millers organization was all about- recovering dead people so their families could have some closure. They aren't combing the woods and swamps looking for an "alive" anything. They have never claimed to be an organization that is out looking for living persons.
The media saw weak people who were going in every which direction and exploited them. The Anthony's, who by now had lost their jobs and all credibility they had, decided to seek income through selling pics of Caylee to the media, paid interviews where they dined and stayed in really really nice places in NY, California, etc. Remember the crab puffs incident?
I think the Ants went whichever way the wind was blowing day-to-day.
Can't say what I would do. But I know I would NOT choose the same path they have. And now CA sits in court coaching Casey on crying and fake tears wiping. (BTW where are the glasses Ms Casey wore during her stint w/ Jose outside his office? Hummm, guess they were fake glasses only worn to make a certain "impression".) So Cindy hasn't learned one damn thing from all of this, she is still coaching Casey even with the memory of Caylee and the trial being underway, she still persists.
