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Do I have this right? EP claimed she wanted a divorce which SP denied her, but when he rightly declared his status as 'separated', she didn't cheer, elated he was ready to move forward in the divorce process?
But instead got angry and launched right into arguing about child support?
And SP didn't argue it. He agreed to pay it!
So she moved the goalposts again, arguing now that -- in addition to child support -- she expected him to pay tuition/activities/etc as well. Seriously. Arguing that before having a discussion , reaching an agreement on the amount of child support? She sounds like someone who simply wants to argue. (Notable that SP was trying IMO not to engage with her for is very reason.)
Her argument was inane. A legal child support plan would surely have factored for the children's expenses and been calculated accordingly. It was an empty argument, one she invented 8n order t9 force SP's engagement. Negative attention is attention. And when SP held firm (no engagement), she upped the game, drawing his parents into her made up argument. Now SP is a bad dad, shirking his responsibilities, for I guess not paying overages to a child support amount that was never determined.
Remember, her "argument" was that SP was refusing to pay anything more for the children, ab9ve child support which hadn't been determined!!!!
Her in-laws IMO tried to be diplomatic... until EP started attacking them (if you loved the children, you would....l), then tried to recuse themselves. But, as we've seen, there isn't a healthy boundary anywhere that that EP respects. She wanted them to force SP to engage with her.
That is what her relationship with SP was. Engagement. Maladaptive relationshipping.
(Same IMO with her relationship with her children. Not commending them for being honest, but instead modeling dishonesty, and worse, flipping it. She is honest, they are not (which flies in the face of what they themselves have experienced -- which is exactly how chronic gaslighting eventually erodes one's trust in one's own perception.)
When EP could not get SP's parents to engage in her fabricated fight against SP nor get them to force SP into engagement, she was done with them. They were as SP to her. One and the same.
Why the other couple? This is how cold, petty, indictive EP is -- she invited them (led them to slaughter) as BAIT, to draw the others in, because surely she'd mean them no harm.
That is how casually she willing to kill.
There is constant talk about no motive here. I think the stark truth is that her motive was so weak/minor/petty is hard to fathom a human being could murder so lightly.
Monster.
JMO
Erin didn’t ask for a divorce. The rest is true!