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This was how I interpreted it - and I will preface this by saying that I believe Erin’s motive for these murders was / is her need for Control and the Power she believes she holds over others. ( she was over having to pretend, she was over ‘that family’ - them having access to her kids /having a say / expectations / going to church etc. ……. So she exercised her power, she took control and she got rid of them.)I can't quite make out what Ian was saying in his final comments where he said she had become a victim of his kindness?
I think Ian not only recognised her need for control but he also saw her unrepentant satisfaction in having exercised that power over him & his family. She set them up and then they were at her mercy. Yet even then she refused to help them; she looked down on them as if they were ‘nothing’ as she watched them, helpless and dying.
All 4 of those lunch guests became victims of Erin’s power & control. As did their extended family members who are left grieve, to ponder and to try to find balance and a semblance of recovery.
Ian fought with everything he had ( and lost) to be here as a representative of his 3 much loved family members who didn’t survive Erin’s lunch.
I’m sure Ian sees it as God’s will that he’s here as their representative.
I believe he understands that there is a power from genuine forgiveness in that it will bring him a sense of peace. No longer is he a Victim of Erin as she holds no power over him.
Instead, she is now wondering & flailing, in a place where she has no control & no power … with a long & hopeless stretch ahead.
Ian generously offered her advice & Hope - be honest, repent, be remorseful, have a shot at gaining inner peace, and perhaps a lighter sentence.
As a very good christian being, his prayers I think are powerful and Ian is moving on .. the tables are turned & Erin is now the victim - hoping for her salvation.
IMO.