CA CA - Bob Harrod, 81, Orange County, 27 July 2009 - #14

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  • #381
At this point, I don't see how it could be random. It's an inside job. Follow the money, it's always about the money. Who gained the most??? Who is in for the lions share??? And who is going to come out smelling like a rose??? All will benefit.

How hard have they looked for their father??? Did they offer a reward for information about him??? With all that money, certainly they can spare some of his money to find him??

1 1/2 years. They must be getting giddy. They are in the home stretch now. Wonder what they are going to do to Fontelle??? That poor woman. She had just a few short weeks with her beloved Bob.

Wish there was some new information on him. I'm so glad Disappeared is going to reinvigorate Bob's story. Maybe some great new leads will come in. JMO.

They DID offer a reward Seajay. With, written across it in big letters, 'Family members are excluded from claiming this reward'.'

Now, how odd is that? I always thought it might have been aimed at AH, but now I'm wondering if there might be someone else out there who could possibly help. That would be so wonderful.
 
  • #382
IMO, I think we need to look at 3 things here.

1)The timing of the heated family meeting.
2)The time/date Bob asked his daughters to leave him alone for 6 months
3)The time/date Paula discovered Bob was gifting the hair dresser money.

#'s 2 and 3 above seem to have occured in January of 2009.

According to EdinburghLass's summary of the Disappeared show, Paula mentions discovering Bob was giving the BL money when she did his taxes. Year end statements from financial institutions come fairly quickly, so I think we are safe to assume during the month of January the following happened:

1)Bob's taxes filed and the discovery of giving the BL money.
2)Julie reporting 'elder abuse'
3)Some kind of talk about gifting money, or demanding money in which Bob gave his daughters each 15K and asked them to leave him alone for 6 mo's. Which I believe was a result of the reporting of the elder abuse.

I think the 3 occurances (taxes, reported elder abuse, payment of 15K to daughters with the request to leave him alone 6 mo's) which likely occured in January, led to Bob making some kind of changes which were first made known at the heated family meeting. I seem to recall daughter Roberta stating she was unaware she was a co-conservator prior to the heated family meeting.

Something clearly changed which upset the Michaels family. Because immediately after this heated family meeting, the 'Michaels triangle' of Jeff, Julie and Andrew have seemingly full access to Bob's home and property/paperwork/records for 50-55 hours or so until Mrs. Harrod arrived home Wednesday July 29.

50-55 hours is an awful lot of time to have full unobstructed access to Bob's home. Enough time to dig through his financial records, compile the mile long memorabilia list and put a stop to whatever changes Bob had made and was in the process of making.

I go back and forth between thinking daughter RB gets so angry because she simply does not want to be forced to look at the obvious - a kind of don't make me look there thing, look here with me...

I'd bet money the Michaels triangle is responsible for Bob's 'disappearance'. All three of them are equally involved and equally responsible, imo, and have somehow managed to convince Paula and Roberta their actions, which were not intended to disappear Bob, deem their culpability equally with JeM's, JuM's and AH's, when in reality PB and RB's behavior is not. The Michael's triangle is just using that as a weapon, and I hope PB and RB can recognize and accept it.

I think all three of those events, tied together provide a very very strong motive.

What did Jeff, Julie and Andrew learn the day of the family meeting they had not previously known?
BBM

What a strange request. I wonder how that really went down. Why 6 months? Why give them each 15K? Why do they think its "elder abuse" when Bob gives money to the hairdresser, but its perfectly fine when he gives it to them? :waitasec:
 
  • #383
Precisely.

I think Bob's action speaks far louder than words. You've got to be pretty much at the end of your tether to pay your children to keep away. Maybe the 15k was the least he thought he could get away with, because he knew he would need to make further payments again soon?

It all pales into insignificance in comparison to the amounts being handed over to AH, anyway....
 
  • #384
Precisely.

I think Bob's action speaks far louder than words. You've got to be pretty much at the end of your tether to pay your children to keep away. Maybe the 15k was the least he thought he could get away with, because he knew he would need to make further payments again soon?

It all pales into insignificance in comparison to the amounts being handed over to AH, anyway....
Please forgive me if I state the obvious, but I'm just getting my footing in the case. If I understand correctly, Bob got remarried right around the time the 6 months would have expired? Bob told his daughters about the impending marriage thinking it would be coming soon, but Bob and Fontelle decided on a whim to get married immediately?
 
  • #385
BBM: What????:what: They have done that??? That's a little nervewracking if it's true. Wow.


Yes, they did. It was mostly through FB for those who joined the 'useless FB page' before it had been turned over to Bob's daughters. Those who used their real name on Bob's fb page were later sleuthed by Bob's daughters. Also, there is another site in which one of the moderators has given IP addresses to at least one of Bob's daughters.

AFAIC, the "intimidation factor" is just another piece of the puzzle Bob's daughters are handing over to LE and the SA.


Don't let it worry you. Wild horses wouldn't keep us from searching for answers in Bob's case.
 
  • #386
I can only imagine what goes through LE's mind when they read Bob's daughters flare up posts. If their temper flare's up that much over strangers, how much more so over their father and his money?

It would be interesting to know.....

I am sooooo looking forward to Bob's show airing next week!
 
  • #387
Please forgive me if I state the obvious, but I'm just getting my footing in the case. If I understand correctly, Bob got remarried right around the time the 6 months would have expired? Bob told his daughters about the impending marriage thinking it would be coming soon, but Bob and Fontelle decided on a whim to get married immediately?

Nearly, but not quite. Bob didn't tell his family he was married until AFTER he and Fontelle had tied the knot. As far as I recall, Bob and Fontelle went down to the registrar's office just to book their wedding, and when they got there and discovered they could marry on the spot, they did! Why waste time at that age?

I cannot recall exactly when the 6 month period was supposed to have begun. It is in a post somewhere in the threads by CA exile, and may be in the media thread too. I will have a look when I get a minute.
 
  • #388
I DO NOT know why I didn't know this! Maybe I did, and with the other minutia these people seem to wallow in to distract everyone around them, I may have forgotten.

They do not seem to understand that the more crud they pull to detract, the more people are attracted to the case. They've done nothing to change my mind about my main suspects in this case. I still have a question or two about one of the three's involvement.

For me, it hinges on that 10 am phone call. Is the party on the other end of the line absolutely sure it was Bob? If not, Bob "disappeared" much earlier in the day - Sunday going into Monday. I can't get past that phone call, the sheets, unmade bed, and the cleaning woman's saying he always made his bed.

I've been looking forward to his "Disappeared" episode, but now, I wonder how up-to-date it's going to be. I hope they make it clear that the barber friend and husband have been cleared, so those doing the finger pointing will look like the ___ they really are.

:rose: Bob and Fontelle :rose:




Yes, they did. It was mostly through FB for those who joined the 'useless FB page' before it had been turned over to Bob's daughters. Those who used their real name on Bob's fb page were later sleuthed by Bob's daughters. Also, there is another site in which one of the moderators has given IP addresses to at least one of Bob's daughters.

AFAIC, the "intimidation factor" is just another piece of the puzzle Bob's daughters are handing over to LE and the SA.


Don't let it worry you. Wild horses wouldn't keep us from searching for answers in Bob's case.
 
  • #389
I can only imagine what goes through LE's mind when they read Bob's daughters flare up posts. If their temper flare's up that much over stragers, how much more so over their father and his money?

It would be interesting to know.....

I am sooooo looking forward to Bob's show airing next week!

Didn't Mrs Harrod say exactly that in Disappeared, Long Lost Love? That Bob said Roberta was the worst for flaring up and always causing trouble?

It does make you wonder what Bob might have had to put up with, doesn't it?
 
  • #390
Nearly, but not quite. Bob didn't tell his family he was married until AFTER he and Fontelle had tied the knot. As far as I recall, Bob and Fontelle went down to the registrar's office just to book their wedding, and when they got there and discovered they could marry on the spot, they did! Why waste time at that age?

I cannot recall exactly when the 6 month period was supposed to have begun. It is in a post somewhere in the threads by CA exile, and may be in the media thread too. I will have a look when I get a minute.



IIRC, CA Exile posted that everytime one of the daughters called Bob during the 6 month hiatus (sp?) he stated the 6 months started all over again? IIRC, that 6 mo's had a few start dates.
 
  • #391
Didn't Mrs Harrod say exactly that in Disappeared, Long Lost Love? That Bob said Roberta was the worst for flaring up and always causing trouble?

It does make you wonder what Bob might have had to put up with, doesn't it?


Yes, that's what I heard while the short snippet of a video was still up.
 
  • #392
I DO NOT know why I didn't know this! Maybe I did, and with the other minutia these people seem to wallow in to distract everyone around them, I may have forgotten.

They do not seem to understand that the more crud they pull to detract, the more people are attracted to the case. They've done nothing to change my mind about my main suspects in this case. I still have a question or two about one of the three's involvement.

For me, it hinges on that 10 am phone call. Is the party on the other end of the line absolutely sure it was Bob? If not, Bob "disappeared" much earlier in the day - Sunday going into Monday. I can't get past that phone call, the sheets, unmade bed, and the cleaning woman's saying he always made his bed.

I've been looking forward to his "Disappeared" episode, but now, I wonder how up-to-date it's going to be. I hope they make it clear that the barber friend and husband have been cleared, so those doing the finger pointing will look like the ___ they really are.

:rose: Bob and Fontelle :rose:


Det. Loomis mentions the BL. Paraphrased she says we looked into her whereabouts. It doesn't really say either way, but Loomis is clear on why she believes the BL as a possible suspect makes no sense.

It will be very interesting and I'm sure Bob's thread will be buzzing.

I'm even wondering if we should have a seperate thread for the Disappeared show like Dylan Redwine had a seperate thread for the Dr. Phil show. I'll toss out the suggestion and see what others think.
 
  • #393
Respectfully snipped and BBM. What does this mean? Does it mean Georgia's will is not on file?

Apparently not.

Wouldn't Fontelle be considered as being married to him this whole time he's been missing??? I mean if he is declared dead in 2014, 5 years after he disappeared, wouldn't the DOD be 2014 or whenever the courts legally declare him dead and not have the death date be retroactive back to July 27, 2009, the day he disppeared??? So when Bob is declared dead by the daughters via the courts, won't she have been married to him for 5 years?? Not one month??

Yes. She would.

No, not being facetious at all. I forget names and words and then it bugs me like crazy. Thank you very much for your help! I remembered the name as soon as I saw your post.

Agreed, it was a very strange and tragic case. And a baby left behind too, and an estranged grandma, I think. Hope the baby is loved and thriving now, money or none.

Since you don't live in America, it's not surprising that you can't remember her name. She's not as popular in other countries!!! (We tend to think everyone knows everything about American celebs!!)

If an application is made to the court for declaration of death, the court determines the date of death on the evidence.


Probate Code, California.
http://www.leginfo.ca.gov/index.html

Yes and no. There are special rules that govern missing person cases and generally, the missing person is determined to have died at the end of the five year period:

2. [14:414] Who is a “Missing Person” for Purposes of Decedent's Estate Administration: For purposes of estate administration, a “missing person” is presumed deceased if (i) he or she has not been seen or heard from for a continuous five-year period by those who are “likely to have seen or heard from that person,” (ii) diligent search for and inquiry about the missing person's whereabouts have been shown, and (iii) the missing person's absence cannot be satisfactorily explained. The presumptive death is deemed to have occurred at the end of the five-year period unless there is “sufficient evidence” to establish death occurred earlier. [Prob.C. §§ 12400, 12401; see In re Starr (2002) 104 CA4th 487, 495–496, 128 CR2d 282, 287–288—presumption inapplicable where absence is capable of satisfactory explanation other than death (e.g., flight to avoid imprisonment); Geiger v. United States Dept. of Justice (1992) 3 CA4th 127, 135–136, 4 CR2d 252, 257—evidence of staged death to avoid imprisonment provided satisfactory explanation for absence]This presumption is a presumption affecting the burden of proof. [Ev.C. §§ 667, 660] On the effect of such a presumption, see14:437.

Hearsay evidence only.

Well, we are not in a court of law. Thus, the rules of evidence have zero to do with our investigations and research into what may have happened. If websleuths was limited to discussions of only what may be admissible in a court of law, most discussion would grind to a halt. Further, if LE investigators refused to explore or consider or use as a guidepost, evidence that may be inadmissible in a court of law, most investigations would grind to a halt as well.

Moreover, I note that you yourself are using hearsay to insinuate that Mrs. Harrod may have been involved in the death of her long lost love. Why is it okay for you to use to support a very speculative position that is not supported in any way shape or form by any of the evidence, but no one else can when it comes to facts that LE at least believe points to a valid motive?

Finally, I find any insinuations that Mrs. Harrod might have been involved to be disgustingly offensive. Zero evidence, "admissible" or not, suggest her involvement. Like the hairdresser, she stood to gain much more if Mr. Harrod had lived than if he had died. Much, much more.

And I think such gross insinuations may be against the rules here. This is a victim friendly website. Mrs. Harrod is a victim. Unless suspicion has been cast upon her by LE or media statements or programs, I believe she is off limits.

I met Mrs. Harrod and perhaps that makes me even more sensitive to allegations leveled at an elderly woman who lost her late in life chance at romance. I will post more one day about what I observed when I met her but recalling her steely resolve to find her husband and to get justice for him, in the face of being in a town far from anyone she knows, in a home in which she may not be very safe, surrounded by people who may have been involved in her husband's murder, who have tried to get her out and to stop her from being the lone voice in his family, crying for answers, well, it absolutely sickens me that anyone could even hint at something evil to do with her.

She is an older lady who should be enjoying a whirlwind chance of a lifetime romance, not sitting in a scary, empty, stripped home, resolutely seeking justice for the man she loved.
 
  • #394
Thank you so much for that, gitana1. I was looking back at one of the earliest articles, where it stated Mrs Harrod intended to stay in the home and wait for her husband. That's nearly four years ago now.

Steely resolve is exactly the right description, I think.
 
  • #395
Human remains found. Around an hour's drive from Placentia.

http://abclocal.go.com/kabc/story?section=news/local/los_angeles&id=9005652


Remains found near 8400 block of La Tuna Canyon Rd.

Bumping the above post so I can ask charminglane's thoughts on the above location.

charminglane, what do you think about the above location as possibly being Bob's remains?
Does the address/location ring any bells for you? Is it an area you think the 'inner circle' may be familiar with?

tia
 
  • #396
IIRC, CA Exile posted that everytime one of the daughters called Bob during the 6 month hiatus (sp?) he stated the 6 months started all over again? IIRC, that 6 mo's had a few start dates.

LOL Now that's funny. I can see him doing that. I guess if they are pushy and aggressive, he has to handle them that way. He just wanted them to leave him alone for awhile so he could grieve. He had taken care of Georgia and needed a breather from them. I like his style. :)
 
  • #397
Nearly, but not quite. Bob didn't tell his family he was married until AFTER he and Fontelle had tied the knot. As far as I recall, Bob and Fontelle went down to the registrar's office just to book their wedding, and when they got there and discovered they could marry on the spot, they did! Why waste time at that age?

I cannot recall exactly when the 6 month period was supposed to have begun. It is in a post somewhere in the threads by CA exile, and may be in the media thread too. I will have a look when I get a minute.

BBM

But he did tell them that he was planning to get married and hoped they would be there, correct? The way I understood it, he told the family he was PLANNING to get married, but when he and Fontelle went to get the license or whatever, they decided to go ahead and wed on the spot. I wonder how frosty the daughters were about that. Perhaps if Bob and Fontelle had waited, the daughters would've tried to put a stop to it.

BTW-does anyone know who alerted the media of the Bob/Fontelle love story?

Thanks for your patience!
 
  • #398
I believe it has been said the media were alerted by a neighbour of Bob's. But I don't think there is any definite reference in msm to that, as far as I know. I suspect, even if it was a neighbour of Bob's, that neighbour would have let Bob know? He and Fontelle seemed to be really happy to be in the spotlight, it seems to me.

Everytime I watch the 'maybe one? Noon?' video I am entranced by the little snip of Bob on the phone, blowing kisses down the line to Fontelle and chuckling. He looks so happy, so excited.

ETA: I am not certain if family were informed of a planned wedding. Maybe someone else can recall that?
 
  • #399
I believe it has been said the media were alerted by a neighbour of Bob's. But I don't think there is any definite reference in msm to that, as far as I know. I suspect, even if it was a neighbour of Bob's, that neighbour would have let Bob know? He and Fontelle seemed to be really happy to be in the spotlight, it seems to me.

Everytime I watch the 'maybe one? Noon?' video I am entranced by the little snip of Bob on the phone, blowing kisses down the line to Fontelle and chuckling. He looks so happy, so excited.

ETA: I am not certain if family were informed of a planned wedding. Maybe someone else can recall that?

I pulled this from the Timeline:
Sat, June 27, 2009
• Bob called daughter RB to tell her for the first time about Fontelle and that they wanted to get married and hoped the family would be there once they figured out the date, etc. (ref hearsay from daughter on IS forum)
Mon, June 29, 2009
• Bob and FH got married at the Fullerton courthouse without telling either family

Thurs, July 2, 2009
• Bob and FH told their families about the marriage (ref hearsay from daughter on IS forum)
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=113919

So I guess it's not really a fact, just something that was said by the family after-the-fact.

And ITA! Bob was so sweet and charming in the video. He and Fontelle deserve so much better than what they got.
 
  • #400
Here you go, Tamild. Follow this link down to the media thread, and go down to the July 27th June date in Angelo's post. Daughter RB says the first she knew about Fontelle or the marriage was on that day, which was two days before the actual marriage. Bob phoned her and told her, she hadn't actually met Fontelle though Fontelle had been staying at Bob's for a while then.
That suggests to me Bob and RB were not particularly close at that time, maybe?

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