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Most veterans don't admit to their mental health issues. Which makes treatment more difficult. The typical vet, with problems, generally self medicates with alcohol until they hit rock bottom. The opposite, is the one that keeps everything bottled in as tight as a drum, with out of control OCD, perfectionism, workaholic, and sees everything "black or white". People are "good or bad" nothing in between.
People who have not been in the military, really don't understand the strange overwhelming feelings when you leave the military. In the military, there are very few choices to make. Your clothes are the same, your schedule is dictated, your food is generic, cafeteria food. Even your "free" time, is usually spent working out, so you don't embarrass yourself at mandatory PT.
Then, you leave that environment. And everything hits you...you have a million choices to make every day.
Not justifying anything. Just showing a perspective.
People who have not been in the military, really don't understand the strange overwhelming feelings when you leave the military. In the military, there are very few choices to make. Your clothes are the same, your schedule is dictated, your food is generic, cafeteria food. Even your "free" time, is usually spent working out, so you don't embarrass yourself at mandatory PT.
Then, you leave that environment. And everything hits you...you have a million choices to make every day.
Not justifying anything. Just showing a perspective.