UK Eliza & Henrietta Huszti, sisters both 32, CCTV captures them near a river at 2am, Aberdeen, 7 Jan 2025 #2

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  • #541
I can’t stop pondering on the circumstances that led them to do that. If that is the outcome, truly heartbreaking . Having been through some terrible lows in life, as we all have I am sure, there is always so much to keep me wanting to live. Some of them very simple things like nature and my pets and family. To not have that must be just unthinkable. Prayers for them and their family.
I meant to not have that inner drive to live.
 
  • #542
If intentional deaths, the suicidal ideation was possibly long term. Having one another to confide and express ambivalent painful feelings may created a secretive and determined bond guiding their path and mission. I imagine the sisters tightly holding hands until the end. :(
 
  • #543
I can understand it if one of them had a terminal illness (or both, obviously, but less likely). With their being so close they could not face suffering or being parted. If this is the case it may emerge, but I doubt it would be made public.
 
  • #544
I can understand it if one of them had a terminal illness (or both, obviously, but less likely). With their being so close they could not face suffering or being parted. If this is the case it may emerge, but I doubt it would be made public.
I don't know how you see it, I'm just jumping off the last post so to speak and not directing my post at you, but I'm totally OK with never knowing why somebody (anybody) I don't even know decided to end their life (if that is what indeed happened here.) We don't have a RIGHT to know, just because we enjoy sleuthing and are curious. For their family it is of course different and obvious that they'd most likely want to know.

MOO JMO
 
  • #545
I don't know how you see it, I'm just jumping off the last post so to speak and not directing my post at you, but I'm totally OK with never knowing why somebody (anybody) I don't even know decided to end their life (if that is what indeed happened here.) We don't have a RIGHT to know, just because we enjoy sleuthing and are curious. For their family it is of course different and obvious that they'd most likely want to know.

MOO JMO
I don’t believe anyone said we have a right to know. Of course not. I personally was saying how heartbreaking it is to feel there is no other solution.
 
  • #546
Police search Aberdeen Harbour for the sisters
Teams are continuing to search Aberdeen Harbour as they look for Eliza and Henrietta Huszti, nearly two weeks after the sisters went missing.

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  • #547
I don’t believe anyone said we have a right to know. Of course not. I personally was saying how heartbreaking it is to feel there is no other solution.
I wasn't actually alluding to your post.

Nobody did say we have a right to know, but my impression in these types of threads is that people really want to know what might have lead to a suicide (if that's what it was) and I'm saying I'm OK with not knowing, partially because it's none of my business. MOO

JMO
 
  • #548
Nobody did say we have a right to know, but my impression in these types of threads is that people really want to know what might have lead to a suicide (if that's what it was) and I'm saying I'm OK with not knowing, partially because it's none of my business. MOO
It's natural to be curious. Knowing what can drive people's actions broadens our minds and expands our understanding of human nature.
 
  • #549
It's natural to be curious. Knowing what can drive people's actions broadens our minds and expands our understanding of human nature.
I suppose I'm saying I can satiate my curiosity and mind-broadening without invading what I see as someone else's privacy and/or their family's privacy. JMO

I will agree to disagree.
 
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DBM because duplicate
 
  • #551
It's natural to be curious. Knowing what can drive people's actions broadens our minds and expands our understanding of human nature.
It can also cause those of us who have struggled with suicidal ideation to take grateful pause for life today.
 
  • #552
A little more detail on the local article about a Hungarian journalist coming over.


“However, she did reveal that the family are receiving daily briefings about the search for Eliza and Henrietta, who are two of triplets.

Following a conversation with their brother, Josef, Kirsztina understands the third triplet is living with her own family back in Hungary but has little contact with the rest of the family.

They are, however, “happy” that Krisztina has made the trip over to try and find answers for them.

“I think all of us believe that they are still alive,” she said.”
 
  • #553
I suppose I'm saying I can satiate my curiosity and mind-broadening without invading what I see as someone else's privacy and/or their family's privacy. JMO

I will agree to disagree.
I said that it was natural to be curious, not that it was OK to invade anyone's privacy.
Sometimes the people affected choose to share their story.
 
  • #554
I said that it was natural to be curious, not that it was OK to invade anyone's privacy.
Sometimes the people affected choose to share their story.
Sometimes it is worth sharing what led to the situation. There are times when something can be learned from these tragic circumstances, and possibly avoid another one.
 
  • #555
They are, however, “happy” that Krisztina has made the trip over to try and find answers for them.

“I think all of us believe that they are still alive,” she said.”
i guess that rules out a clear suicide note left by the twins for their family

it makes me sad to think they are still hoping for them to be alive, when it seems so unlikely now. it’s very understandable of course to keep hoping.
 
  • #556
Having had another look down the area today, there is little chance they could get off the path or street behind the path without being noticed. The only conceivable way would be to go in the water.
I would agree the chace is slim but i don't agree that its the only conceivable way.
 
  • #557
i guess that rules out a clear suicide note left by the twins for their family

it makes me sad to think they are still hoping for them to be alive, when it seems so unlikely now. it’s very understandable of course to keep hoping.
I am still hoping they are alive, against the odds so yes, I agree the family must be clinging on to that. I am sure I would in their shoes.
 
  • #558
i guess that rules out a clear suicide note left by the twins for their family

it makes me sad to think they are still hoping for them to be alive, when it seems so unlikely now. it’s very understandable of course to keep hoping.

I think it doesn't rule out a note being left behind. FamIlies may still hope/believe a note wasn't true, no matter what it said. Yes, this is such a sad tragedy.
 
  • #559
I think it doesn't rule out a note being left behind. FamIlies may still hope/believe a note wasn't true, no matter what it said. Yes, this is such a sad tragedy.
Police said there was no evidence found in the flat that would suggest self harm was the intention. They also said they have found no evidence to suggest criminality. It doesn't mean either of those scenarios are untrue but it does mean police have not found evidence of those scenarios yet. I do think this rules out the finding of a suicide note in the flat though.
Lack of evidence does not mean something is false.
 
  • #560
@lamberta
LE said nothing "specific," so I think there may have been a note that alluded to their plan but wasn't " specific"... but as others are saying, it's not our business ultimately.
 
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