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I'm staring and staring at your post. Are you right? Could be. How many killers tho carry the stigma of being the only male child? Not many is my guess.I wonder if BK’s apparent “problems” with women (which were apparently noted during his academic career going back to high school) have any connection to his role in his family. Conjecture only here, but if his two older female siblings were high achievers academically and were socially well-adjusted as teens/young adults, the amount of, and type of, attention they got from their parents might’ve been quite different from the attention the Kohbergers paid to their overweight, illegal substance-dabbling/-abusing, socially-awkward teenage/young adult son, and he may have resented the sisters for having (in his mind only) effortlessly achieved the social and scholastic successes (and probably earned the positive parental attention) he himself felt entitled to as the family’s only male child. It’s not hard to imagine that his resentment of women (particularly those around his own age/slightly younger) might’ve started in the home and just grew in scope and intensity as he got older.
In my estimation, it is his disregard for others, his self-interest, and deceit. All of which, can be deeply rooted wrong desires (including those that may have a genetic basis or involve physical causes or environmental factors) that are not insurmountable for people.
It sounds like his parents worked extremely hard trying help and gear him in the right direction. I can't just give him a pass because of his place in the family unit.
There are those who reject help, they like their manic phases, and thrive off of hurting others. It's if they can not function unless there's chaos. They refuse to take their meds because they revel in the feelings of disorder and havoc. I know this for a fact because my step daughter is one of them. And this is exactly how I see BK
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