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This, a million times this! I'm very biased, because you just described my ex-husband to a T and I lived exactly this (minus the children, it was family, friends and work that he kept me from), but him saying that definitely raised a bunch of red flags for me as well. MBM leaving abruptly and cutting off all contact solidified it in my mind. In her shoes, if everything came to light and my mom gave me an out, I would take it too.When someone usually a man ( and im totally being gender biased so deepest apologies in advance , I know abuse happens to men also ) exclaims they do everything in a relationship my radar usually goes up and that radar usually tells me there is some form of abuse present . And when that exclamation is aimed at a woman it usually means the man is mentally and emotionally abusive toward the woman and the woman is so caught up pleasing the man she doesn't have time for her children as she is busy serving his demands
And I'm certainly not MBM's biggest fan
If someone states I do most things in a relationship that is a different statement .imo
Can confirm, they don't at all sound the same.I’d think most rural folk can distinguish the difference in sound between a vehicle and an ATV. Have you ever heard the sound of an ATV when it’s running? IMO it would never be mistaken for a vehicle regardless of how many speeds of the transmission. The sound of a five-speed car ‘booting it’ is very distinct.
JMO