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This is a very valid point. It seems the likely difference between your neighbors and Jack and Lilly, though, are that your neighbkrs most likely p×ut their kids to bed in *clean* clothes, comfortable to sleep in AND ready for the next day.
Jack and Lilly, we are told, went to bed in clothes they'd worn at least all day that day at a minimum, shopping in town, playing out in the yard, and likely playing on a not so clean floor.
If that was routine, resulting from a state of overwhelm, it might be the reason why the school reported them sent to school inappropriately dressed and that they had to be provided clothing by the school. Maybe the kids fell asleep in their dirty all-day clothes, fed themselves, and got themselves to the school bus as a matter of routine? We really dont know for aure; all we have is Malehya's word on what their morning habits were. And "say so" is not evidence. We also saw in the docs that the kids were reported to have behavioral issues on the bus which may have stemmed from their home situation. There was to be more investigation by child pritective services but that can't happen now.
Psst: I have slept in clean sweatpants and sweatshirt myself a time or two when I needed to jet out very early in the morning. No problem with that cancept× at all!
There are a lot of assumptions in this theory, and most, if not all, twisted toward assuming the parents of chronic neglect. How on earth can one assume that the floor was not so clean? Or that the kids routinely went to school in dirty clothes, or that the mother was lying about the morning routine? They just spent the day doing the laundry. Doesn't that suggest that clean clothes were important?