I'm going to cut the parents some slack... as a mother,/grandmother, I clearly remember days when the kids were sick, PD days, the flu bugs from h*(^$% and all the symptoms that would never stop. One bug after another. I remember laying in bed thinking, "ach what's a couple more days at home, maybe it'll stop this darn cough once and for all. I'm so sick of them being sick". So what did we do... goof off, go to McDonalds, play outside, go shopping.... so maybe they were in the same mind set. Kids stayed home. Parents just being normal parents.
If a four year old needed a pull up, it might only have been during the night. I imagine he knew exactly how to yank that thing off in am, and put on clothes. I also remember setting up Cheerios and snacks they could make for Saturday mornings infront of cartoons. We were never asleep, but definitely having a "lie in". They loved it and it gave us a little coping time. So maybe when these parents said they were asleep and lost track of time, maybe they were just resting, one eye on the kids and the other relaxing. Heck, maybe they were having sex! We've all been there as mothers and know how exhausting it was. My DH and I worked shifts and it was a killer with kids, and we were very good parents.
I agree with everyone having different coping mechanisms/different reactions to severe stress, but do find it hard to fathom why she left that house. I like others wouldn't have, I would be searching nonstop. And I wouldn't be giving any updates to anyone, absolutely no one.
Does she have an addiction? Did she need to leave the house to clean up for a few days?
If she erased DM from FB so quick, was she in the process of this anyways? This may have been the final straw. One article said they had been together 3 years, that would have started when Jack was just 1. Is he DM's child, he does look like him. 3 years is long enough for a step father to bond with those kids, so maybe he really does have a vested interest in finding them. And does he have legal rights? Does Common Law stretch to partners children, outside of Meadow?
Do they need lawyers, I don't think so at this point. There's not been any charges yet. So is this becoming a circumstantial case? And what does that really mean?
Apologies for this being long winded.............................