4 Univ of Idaho Students Murdered, Bryan Kohberger Arrested, Moscow, Nov 2022 #102

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  • #141
I totally agree that DM had a story to tell, and a huge one, but the operator was focused on getting help to who she thought was passed out. That's who needed the most urgent help with the limited info she had. And even now that she knows all the details, I'm guessing she wouldn't do things differently. I'm thinking they train them to focus on what appears to be the most urgent. First things first and all that.

JMO
I am not disputing what the operator was trying to do. But one of the girls actually asks, "Can I tell you what happened?... At 4 a.m." The operator cuts her off. The speaker believes those events were tied to the "passed out" victim. In order to know what it is the most urgent issue at hand, the operator needs to understand the situation. The girls could have disturbed and tainted a crime scene.
 
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MOO The operator was focused on getting help to an unconscious person where seconds matter.
I agree with this to a large extent. While the operator could have been kinder,, the job is to dispatch the emergency vehicles needed and keep people alive until help can get there. You can't do that if you don't know whether or not someone is breathing.

It also highlights how in denial poor DM was. To her, Xana just was not waking up. She is absolutely terrified and she still WANTS it to be drinking and passed out.
 
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Goncalves Family Statement:

As we continue to process the 911 call we just wanted to share some of our thoughts….

We stand together with all the victims of Idaho—both those we have lost and those who remain, forever marked by a tragedy that no passage of time will ever erase.

The 911 call? It is not the neatly rehearsed dialogue of a well-crafted story, not the polished performance you might expect from a Hollywood script.

No. It is raw. It is jagged. A searing, unvarnished truth that no camera could ever hope to capture. Every breath. Every cry. Every tremor in the voice reveals a reality so cruel, so brutally honest, it cuts deeper than anything fiction could devise.

After hearing that call, one thing is clear—H, with his quiet, stoic resolve, protected those girls from a nightmare that no one should ever be forced to witness. He stepped into the abyss, shielding them from horrors that will haunt him forever.

For that, the Goncalves family owes him a debt that words cannot repay.

If you were expecting a neat, cinematic conclusion—something palatable, something that offers closure—let me make this clear:
The real world does not operate on such terms. The terror of that night cannot be cleanly packaged, wrapped in a bow, or distilled into a simple, digestible narrative. It is ugly. It is painful. It is the kind of horror that shakes you to your deepest core. These were not adults. They were children, still clinging to the fragile threads of innocence when the world was violently torn from them in an instant.

In closing let us face the uncomfortable truth: Had the 911 call been made the moment the accused left that house; it would not have saved anyone. Nothing would have changed.

So, we ask, respectfully—please, do not waste your energy pointing fingers at those who could not have prevented it.
The anger, the grief, the pain—they must all be focused on one thing. One person. The one who stole the innocence of Moscow that night, we demand justice and that cause is all that matters now.

WOW, mic drop!
‘nuff said.

IMHOO
 
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  • #144
I am not disputing what the operator was trying to do. But one of the girls actually asks, "Can I tell you what happened?... At 4 a.m." The operator cuts her off. The speaker believes those events were tied to the "passed out" victim. In order to know what it is the most urgent issue at hand, the operator needs to understand the situation. The girls could have disturbed and tainted a crime scene.
However, is it more important to get help for someone who might need it, or preserve a possible crime scene? I, personally, would go with get help.

Suppose the case was that someone was still alive and needed immediate aid or would die. Would you want someone using precious time explaining what happened last night, or maybe staunching a wound or restarting a heart?

The dispatcher's attitude kind of grated on my nerves. She didn't have to be abrupt. But she was doing the correct thing, IMO
 
  • #145
I agree with this to a large extent. While the operator could have been kinder,, the job is to dispatch the emergency vehicles needed and keep people alive until help can get there. You can't do that if you don't know whether or not someone is breathing.

It also highlights how in denial poor DM was. To her, Xana just was not waking up. She is absolutely terrified and she still WANTS it to be drinking and passed out.
For me, where the 9-1-1 dispatcher got most annoying and stern was insisting they locate their defibrillator. Am I on a different planet? Is it commonplace to have a home defibrillator? We have them at work and church, and I sometimes see them in public places, but the girls ID’d their location as a house. Just wondering why she would have assumed they had that medical devise. OMO..
 
  • #146
I am not disputing what the operator was trying to do. But one of the girls actually asks, "Can I tell you what happened?... At 4 a.m." The operator cuts her off. The speaker believes those events were tied to the "passed out" victim. In order to know what it is the most urgent issue at hand, the operator needs to understand the situation. The girls could have disturbed and tainted a crime scene.
Operator interrupted the “at 4 am”-what if the 4 am reference had something to do with why her roommate might be passed out-say, at 4 am my roommate shot heroin. It could have given information on the reason. I understand that it was about the victim in present time and her condition, but I don’t think the operator was able to judge what was being said in 3 words. Hindsight is 20/20, and the operator was reading from her script. Again, none of it would have made a difference.
 
  • #147
I didn't think we knew location of injuries. Source?

MOO
Am I conflating these stabbings with Delphi murders? Maybe so, but I thought I'd read that he went quickly for the neck and throats---which is why no-one heard screaming and things were over fast.
 
  • #148
Am I conflating these stabbings with Delphi murders? Maybe so, but I thought I'd read that he went quickly for the neck and throats---which is why no-one heard screaming and things were over fast.
OOPs, just saw the reply, that it was in chest area, not neck. I think I was mixing it up with the Delphi murders? Sorry....🫤
 
  • #149
OOPs, just saw the reply, that it was in chest area, not neck. I think I was mixing it up with the Delphi murders? Sorry....🫤
I honestly do not believe it made any difference whether the first knife plunge was to the neck or chest. Conventional wisdom is that a knife blade needs about four inches of pentetration to cause a mortal wound in the torso area of an adult, and the KaBar has a seven inch blade, capable of cutting through ribs easily. I believe a well-placed stab in the chest area would be fatal as quickly as one to the neck area, and may be sudden enough that the victim would not have the time or ability to scream. We do know that at least XK, and perhaps KG both put up some resistance, but their energies were most likely completely expended in defending themselves from the killer. JMO
 
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MOO



Does anyone have a good source for the following information?

I can't find "who" and "when" and "what happened" from the time BF and DM stopped texting each other up until 911 was called.

All I've been able to glean is that BF and DM ended up in the same room; late morning they started contacting others, including a father; some people guided the women; some people showed up either because they were asked or because they couldn't reach someone.

WHEN/where did BF and DM go to sleep?

WHEN did they wake up?

Is it true someone found one of these women asleep on the floor? (I think this was an error by a commenter based on misinterpreting 911 call.)

WHO did BF and DM contact then?

WHAT did they say and what were the responses?

WHO came over? And did they arrive because they were contacted or because they couldn't reach the roommates?

WHAT was said or done then? (Before 911 call.)




MOO
 
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  • #151
Is it at all possible that the 2 young lady housemates (and HJ) will not have to set eyes on BK at the trial? Can't there be a partition placed between them? Has that ever been done at a trial before?
 
  • #152
Is it at all possible that the 2 young lady housemates (and HJ) will not have to set eyes on BK at the trial? Can't there be a partition placed between them? Has that ever been done at a trial before?
From what I can gather, it's incredibly rare. When it does happen, it's generally in the context of vulnerable witnesses who have had crimes committed against them (think child sex abuse victims).

Zero chance we see that here, IMO.
 
  • #153
If I remember correctly, HJ lived at Sigma Chi fraternity house which is a short walk from the house on King Rd. It makes sense that he would be one of the first people called or perhaps he showed up when he couldn’t reach Ethan. I stumbled across this Instagram post from HJ on ethanssmile Instagram while trying to confirm this:

 
  • #154
dbm
 
  • #155
Yes the SM kooks are out in full force accusing, judging and bashing the roommates DM & BF. Absolutely vile. I really wish they’d leave these poor young ladies’ aka VICTIMS alone but I know they won’t as that’s the nature of the cesspool some of those platforms are.

The SM kooks think they know more and are smarter than LE investigating the case, and how they’d have done everything differently than DM & BF did that early morning when DM got a quick glance at the intruder in the house and after finding out later that morning that their 4 friends had been slaughtered. No.
Unless you’ve been through something so horrifying and traumatizing, you have no idea e how you’d react especially at 19-20 years old.

My God those poor young ladies’ and Ethan’s best friend HJ finding his best friend and girlfriend slaughtered and preventing DM & BF from seeing the horror. HJ’s a hero and also another one of the killers victims. The Collateral damage here is astounding all due to one evil, selfish killer (imo BK). The damage and devastation he caused to so many innocent lives is wide and deep. Awful.

IMHOO

I think it is totally natural for the average person to have thoughts about how it maybe could have helped if emergency services knew about the incident sooner. The statement was not released by professionals giving expert opinions, it was from victim's family and is therefore heavily biased.

Of course anyone with a heart and regular emotions feels terrible for surviving victims and all associated and adjacent to this horrific crime. However, there are reasons that people are requested not to speak to the press and releasing press statements is unwise, most especially during the live case. I sincerely doubt any professional agency or expert has guided the family in this regard and the backlash is completely normal and to be expected - it's how life is these days, to expect differently is unrealistic.

JMO MOO
 
  • #156
Who alerted Ethan’s best friend?

We are only aware of DM’s outreach that morning, not BF’s (aside from the 911 call), but we do know DM called EA (woman on call who described herself and HJ as living next to them) at 11:50:58 and the 911 call is placed 5 minutes later. I would guess EA and HJ responded to DM’s call together, though that is not a verified fact.

Source of call to EA: https://coi.isc.idaho.gov/docs/CR01...tion-inLimine-RE-Text-Messages-Testimiony.pdf
 
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  • #157
MOO



Does anyone have a good source for the following information?

I can't find "who" and "when" and "what happened" from the time BF and DM stopped texting each other up until 911 was called.

All I've been able to glean is that BF and DM ended up in the same room; late morning they started contacting others, including a father; some people guided the women; some people showed up either because they were asked or because they couldn't reach someone.

WHEN/where did BF and DM go to sleep?

WHEN did they wake up?

Is it true someone found one of these women asleep on the floor? (I think this was an error by a commenter based on misinterpreting 911 call.)

WHO did BF and DM contact then?

WHAT did they say and what were the responses?

WHO came over? And did they arrive because they were contacted or because they couldn't reach the roommates?

WHAT was said or done then? (Before 911 call.)




MOO

See pages 5-6.

 
  • #158
Agreed. My issue is that operator cut off the witness from sharing relevant information. One of the girls started to tell the operator about the person she saw in the house earlier that morning when the 911 operator said that she was not concerned with that. If the operator had listened for a few more seconds, she may have understood why someone was "passed out." Again, I understand that it is easy to Monday morning quarterback, but the operator was overly frustrated on the call. It was really hard for me to listen to the call.

It's not relevant information though. Finding out about the current situation with why they're calling 911 is the relevant information for the dispatcher. She was told there was an unconscious person which means a potential breathing person. Her job is to get EMS there as quickly as possible with as much information about what's happening right now, not what happened at 4am.
 
  • #159
We are only aware of DM’s outreach that morning, not BF’s (aside from the 911 call), but we do know DM called EA (woman on call who described herself and HJ as living next to them) at 11:50:58 and the 911 call is placed 5 minutes later. I would guess EA and HJ responded to DM’s call together, though that is not a verified fact.

Source of call to EA: https://coi.isc.idaho.gov/docs/CR01...tion-inLimine-RE-Text-Messages-Testimiony.pdf

EA is dating HJ and I believe E was supposed to meet HJ that morning for a study session.

EA lived next door. Not sure if HJ did.
 
  • #160
Operator interrupted the “at 4 am”-what if the 4 am reference had something to do with why her roommate might be passed out-say, at 4 am my roommate shot heroin. It could have given information on the reason. I understand that it was about the victim in present time and her condition, but I don’t think the operator was able to judge what was being said in 3 words. Hindsight is 20/20, and the operator was reading from her script. Again, none of it would have made a difference.

It doesn't matter the reason. The dispatcher is there to find out exactly what's happening now. If someone isn't breathing telling her why or it could be due to this or that won't make a difference, they're not currently breathing hence why she then asks about defibrillator.
 
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