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On the contrary, serious pain registers on a person's face and in how they hold their body.
That's interesting. My family tell me that they can't tell my pain levels at all, by how I hold my body. I have spondylolisthesis too. I have very bad days and some moderate days. Those closest to me say I'm stoic and that they cannot tell if I'm in pain.
It's been 15 years since the major injury that caused the slippage. I am never *not* in pain.
And I've had other painful ailments (like TN - which may win the prize for most painful thing I've ever experienced, and I'm including natural labor and delivery as well as kidney stones). When I went to the hospital for those two births, my then-husband had to explain to the nurse that I don't show pain easily in my face. I'm sometimes called inscrutable. I'd say that my first labor reached 10 out of 10 on a pain scale and the TN was worse than that.
Not only that, but my first piece of applied medical/psychiatric research was on the ways different people express pain, with a focus on nationalities and ethnicities. Not everyone shows pain in the same way. I do believe my dad was equally non-showing of pain.
The research we did at a major research hospital showed that not everyone shows pain on their face (or yells or cries or tenses their body in a particular way).
IMO