INfisherman
I won’t be doing that again.
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Happy Easter to everyone except RA! 





He never walked back anything & if he did it was never reported as such.
No evidence of any recordings of him recanting any confessions. IIRC, he was diagnosed as psychotic for 3 weeks at longest while at Westville. His confessions came before, during & after those diagnoses.
His family were in denial. He’d gaslit them for years, just like he did his wife near the end of the interview with Holeman prior to his arrest.
MOO
I’m left wondering about certain things as well, mainly details about specific events on 13FE17 or when his wife made up her mind he was being completely honest with her. The rest is lies, acting, ego, ignorance & selfishness.If I had made a false confession due to psychosis, the second I had my wits back I would be following up with everyone with an explanation... and I feel like if there were phone calls of him claiming his innocence, defense would have introduced them. So I guess his wife/mother just moved on from those calls, either truly believing they were false confessions or they're just some bonkers level of delusional. (I'm leaning towards the latter). It's just such a big thing to never bring up again.
I know they were gaslit by RA, and how do you accept this man you love did these horrific things, but like ... ??
Sorry that this is ramble-y, just one of those frustrating, hard to understand things I keep mulling over for no reason
I’m left wondering about certain things as well, mainly details about specific events on 13FE17 or when his wife made up her mind he was being completely honest with her. The rest is lies, acting, ego, ignorance & selfishness.
His wife knew he lied. She made the decision to ignore that fact & side with his story despite evidence proving otherwise, as did his mother. They’ve babied him since day one & he’s taken advantage of it his entire life. They all believed the unethical, lying attorneys & let them invent multiple narratives which they chose to believe & follow to this day.
JMO
I think that now KA has had a good amount of time living without RA, she may feel differently. They had been together since they were young, and he did seem to exert a strong hold (possible coercion) over KA, based on videos that have been released. Then add in the original defence team, who IMO were experts in deceitful tactics, and she went with what they were telling her. I think she kind of had to, because she had to stand on the fact that she didn’t know he was RA.Just stepping over to the Devil’s Advocate side for a brief moment but I wouldn’t expect RA’s wife or mother to have thrown him under the bus prior to his trial and during conversations they knew were being recorded. The best they could do is essentially ignore it, much like they did. After all he was legally presumed innocent prior to his conviction. It’s a little unfair to expect a family member to convict him when that’s the role of the jury.
However will either one of them change their mind before or after appeal, assuming his conviction and sentence perpetually stands as is, IMO that’s the question.
JMO
While that is a valid point, it wasn’t really a factor as to why his wife seemingly did an about face after knowing he refused to let her join the searches in 2017 & then later after the interview on 26OCT22, nor the point of the previous discussion. He lied to her, right on camera prior to being arrested in that interview room. It’s right there for all to see - she doesn’t believe him & calls him out on it. He gaslights her & tells her another lie & when the bullet comes up, he tells her he loves her. She doesn’t even seem to kiss him before she walks out of the interview room. Not much of an indication she’s buying what he’s selling, IMO.Just stepping over to the Devil’s Advocate side for a brief moment but I wouldn’t expect RA’s wife or mother to have thrown him under the bus prior to his trial and during conversations they knew were being recorded. The best they could do is essentially ignore it, much like they did. After all he was legally presumed innocent prior to his conviction. It’s a little unfair to expect a family member to convict him when that’s the role of the jury.
However will either one of them change their mind before or after appeal, assuming his conviction and sentence perpetually stands as is, IMO that’s the question.
JMO
While that is a valid point, it wasn’t really a factor as to why his wife seemingly did an about face after knowing he refused to let her join the searches in 2017 & then later after the interview on 26OCT22, nor the point of the previous discussion. He lied to her, right on camera prior to being arrested in that interview room. It’s right there for all to see - she doesn’t believe him & calls him out on it. He gaslights her & tells her another lie & when the bullet comes up, he tells her he loves her. She doesn’t even seem to kiss him before she walks out of the interview room. Not much of an indication she’s buying what he’s selling, IMO.
She chose to accept the lies & gaslighting & then while he was confessing to her over the phone, she chose not to believe it but rather tell him it’s not true & someone is messing with his meds, as did his mother. He tells them both he did it, months after denying it in that interview room.
It’s not about throwing him under the bus so much as it is swallowing his prior lies & the legal folks telling her what to do. Of course she’s going to deny it - the attorneys have told her they can win the case & she fell for that BS as well. My point was she obviously chose to believe a bunch of crap rather than what was right in front of her face, regardless of his legal rights, all the way through the trial. She didn’t have to rat him out to police or over the phone to establish with what she chose to stick.
MOO
ETA over the phone, grammar - last sentence.
He can’t help himself. He has to have control, it seems. He’s a manipulator & she’s likely allowed it to happen since HS. If this experience isn’t a wake up call, then I don’t know what else could be. Fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice, shame on you. She doesn’t have to continue to follow & stick with a selfish man, but AFAWK, she’s 100% vested in the animal.It must’ve been a dilemma for her, for sure. I cannot think of another case which I’ve followed where the accused is discussing anything relating to the crimes he’s been charged with family members in recorded phonecalls.
That’s a horribly unfair burden to place on family members by involving them in any way period. It would be kindness to want to spare them from his situation. He had no business even bringing it into the conversation, just another example of how thoughtless and selfish RA is.
JMO
I have been waiting for this...
But, as I scan through it, I'm heartsick...
It's all so tragic.
And senseless.
And awful.
All because of one sick demented individual.
He deserves to be begging bars for the rest of his disgusting life.
If there were real justice, in this life, Abby and Libby would get their lives restored. Young women who would have and could have and should have gone on to adulthood, to make their marks in this world alive.
He stole all of that.
Indefensible.
JMO
Well said. I can’t stop thinking about the goosebumps on Libby.I have been waiting for this...
But, as I scan through it, I'm heartsick...
It's all so tragic.
And senseless.
And awful.
All because of one sick demented individual.
He deserves to be begging bars for the rest of his disgusting life.
If there were real justice, in this life, Abby and Libby would get their lives restored. Young women who would have and could have and should have gone on to adulthood, to make their marks in this world alive.
He stole all of that.
Indefensible.
JMO
Except, I think KA is still under the thumb of the private investigator, E.M., the defense buddy that was with Motta on a lot of Defense Diary shows. And EM is pretty shady. I know her from previous cases like the Hailey Dunn murder investigation.I still believe KA will divorce RA and move on into obscurity as much as possible after his initial appeals are denied. She's finally free of the NARC child murderer. I think Rozzi and Baldwin had her wound up and convinced of a Not Guilty verdict and needed her as a "Stand by your man" prop.
Lots of press, interviews, book deals. etc. Damn, that Guilty verdict really threw a monkey wrench in all of the leaches plans didn't it?
JMO
Oh that EM is certifiable IMO , I remember her from the HD case. Hopefully KA cuts ties with all these internet cranks, but if not, oh well, it's on her.Except, I think KA is still under the thumb of the private investigator, E.M., the defense buddy that was with Motta on a lot of Defense Diary shows. And EM is pretty shady. I know her from previous cases like the Hailey Dunn murder investigation.
She created a lot of chaos with crazy conspiracy theories of satan worshippers, etc. She moved in with Hailey's father and took over the investigation and began having lots of fundraisers, etc.
It's all about HIM...the RA show. He was pretty much a nondescript nobody anywhere else, but probably made home life unbearable with his crazy antics. I do believe he was an alcoholic, a functioning one, but one nonetheless.It must’ve been a dilemma for her, for sure. I cannot think of another case which I’ve followed where the accused is discussing anything relating to the crimes he’s been charged with family members in recorded phonecalls.
That’s a horribly unfair burden to place on family members by involving them in any way period. It would be kindness to want to spare them from his situation. He had no business even bringing it into the conversation, just another example of how thoughtless and selfish RA is.
JMO
I'd say RA had a classic case of malingering, never had any remorse, but instead, a nasty response to being cut off from KA.Did RA ever try to walk back his confessions to his wife/mother/psychologist/anyone else he directly confessed to?
Obviously in court he claimed his innocence and that the confessions were because of psychosis, but were there any further phone calls with his wife and mother saying "Oops my bad I made a false confession during psychosis" or did they just pretend in all their further conversations that his confessions never happened?
If that's the only kind of person KA truly has on "her" side, then that in itself should tell her something... If she was open to seeing it.Oh that EM is certifiable IMO , I remember her from the HD case. Hopefully KA cuts ties with all these internet cranks, but if not, oh well, it's on her.
I wish you, and everyone else too(!!), a Happy Easter with a sincere hope that you are not holding your breath waiting for the apologies to Judge Gull.WOW!! So Rozzi asked to be disqualified and Baldwin admitted knowingly not reporting leaked discovery to the court and to pleading what he knew to be falsehoods and inaccuracies in a court hearing, on the record. Rozzi must have also know that as well, IMO.
Well some people sure owe JG an apology. MO
And wise, insightful.
Because the first time they watched, they were undecided, listening for content.
The second time, to confirm their verdict.
"Arrest me."
Someone accuses me of something I didn't do I think my hands would naturally go up and push away as I spoke. His body language was out of sync for innocence imo.
Just jumping off from your post:
I have watched many of the recordings but not all, so would someone help me out here, did he ever ask KA point blank if she thought he did it?
If so what did she say in response?
I don't recall seeing him ask that, just him assuring KA that he knows she knows he couldn't/wouldn't do anything like this.