I am 99% the kids are dead, as sad as it is.
I feel that separation is significant in this case. I just cannot figure out HOW.
I have the same feeling, that this sort of separation is unusual enough, that it tells us something about either the relationship, M-s behaviour/character/state or M-s feelings/thoughts regarding D. But I really cannot put my finger on it - it might be a combination of many aspects we do not know about.
murder-by-parent (as opposed to dual abduction, wandering off).
Oh, I think it's the opposite - murder by parent is the obvious one everyone thinks about anyways AND is mostly unable to explore due to not wanting to victim-blame, as there are no POI-s or even a crime.
My personal feeling of "what happened" has setteled to this top three by now (slightly different from a few days back):
1. The kids
wandered away and died of elements - by the sound of it, it was not uncommon that the kids were alone, parents admit to not having eyes on them, there is no evidence of anything else and the only evidence is a child-sized bootprint that no-one else is claiming to have made. The woods are big and the kids are small, no cadaver dogs have been used, it is common for bodies not to be found, M might have lashed out at D due to it being his responsibility to keep an eye on the older kids, the dynamic might be complicated in general.
2. The kids
were killed by a close family member - in that case, at least one parent is likely to be involved and the boot print is likely to be planted. What is lowering this theory to me is the lack of obvious motive to kill
two kids at once and the lack of any
evidence of a murder found so far (these are not criminology phd students and even that one messed up big time). We have no motive, no suspect, no murder weapon, no bodies.
3. Something else happened - this is a lump sum of stranger abduction by the road (morning traffic, trailer with kids visible from the road, kids not supervised), the kids running away on purpose due to something happening at home (might explain the tensions between parents), someone else being involved (say, parents actually had someone over and cannot remember the last night) or whatever else manages to convince me a little. These all feel like it has to be some sort of a " the stars alligned" type of a situation - rare, but sometimes these happen. The boot print might then be irrelevant completely, the crime scene might be outside of current known locations, etc.